Not Well
Join Bobby and Jim on 'Not Well', where fearless conversations meet humor and wisdom in an explosion of topics ranging from the latest celebrity gossip to the intricacies of gay issues and politics. With Bobby's unconventional wisdom, often fueled by his adventures with edibles, leading us into the ...
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April 3, 2026
I Just Realized That I'm Not Even Really Taking the Medication the Way I Should Be
Send us Fan Mail We finally made it to Dallas, and let’s just say the Big D stood for more than just the city name. In this episode, we’re peeling back the foil on our own incompetence—specifically how we’ve been winging our ...
March 6, 2026
The Gooner Algorithm: Squeezing the Sac and Thick Bands
Send a text In this unfiltered catch-up, Bobby and Jim dive into a chaotic month of travel, awkward social encounters, and the strangest corners of the internet. From the "scenes" in Puerto Vallarta and Cleveland to the frustrations of being blocked on dating apps in Columbus, no topic is off-limit…
Feb. 4, 2026
You got so much attention when you were fatter... Now we walk in and we're just old
Send us a text This episode of "Not Well" is a brutally honest, stream-of-consciousness conversation about navigating gay life in your 30s with all its contradictions and anxieties. The hosts dive deep into the psychological aftermath of major weight loss, discussing how losing 65-70 pounds has par…
Jan. 22, 2026
You Cannot Send a Silicone Torso Sex Toy to Your Mother’s House.
Send us a text This episode starts where all good family stories end: with a silicone torso sex toy accidentally delivered to a mother’s house. From there, Bobby and Jim spiral through modern shame, bad decisions, creative vulnerability, and the unspoken rules everyone knows but nobody says out lou…
Jan. 8, 2026
If you’re a boy who wants to play the 'get married' game [as a child], you’re gay. Bottom. You want to be the bride.
Send us a text Bobby returns from his "Echoes Abroad" tour of Ireland and Copenhagen with a a questionable "director lesbian" aesthetic. While Bobby recounts the struggles of finding a decent sunrise in Dublin and the perils of feeling "famous" on TikTok, Jim, who has had flu, shares a horrifying d…
Nov. 21, 2025
You are fisting a cow to get it pregnant. Is that what God wants?
Send us a text he conversation moves through a fast, chaotic blend of social commentary, sexual humor, political cynicism, and personal reflection. It begins with discussion about the resurgence of collectible items and how AI and capitalism may force people back into simpler, more human activities…
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