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Stop seeking validation from people who don't give a fuck about you,

Bobby: 0:54

you soldier boy.

Jim: 0:56

Hey,

Bobby: 0:59

why is this so? Loud? Siren something's happening with this record.

Jim: 1:02

Why do we do that?

Bobby: 1:04

Hey, we have Julian studio with us today. Hello. Welcome to not well I'm Bobby. I'm Jim and we are back for another fun filled fucking episode.

Jim: 1:13

No be no fucking on the episode. Okay, sir.

Bobby: 1:17

I'm having pumpkin beer.

Jim: 1:18

Because we're a little behind. We are a little it's like full

Bobby: 1:22

winter a little behind on our beer slot.

Jim: 1:24

We had to go to the back of the fridge where there are a few pumpkin beers left. You know you've done

Bobby: 1:29

it. You know? It's always that time of the season when you start getting these like pumpkiny that should have been more September October and you're in December January. This is like hot too. Spicy. It is. It's called spicy. It is hot is it tastes like habanero.

Jim: 1:43

Oh no, I can't. I don't do I don't really like spicy.

Bobby: 1:47

I don't fucking do you have an arrow? Oh,

Jim: 1:54

oh ma'am. Honey. Oh. Oh, my your J something.

Bobby: 2:02

Oh, that hole. Oh, I want to see my hole.

Jim: 2:05

Oh, I love that button.

Bobby: 2:06

I'm just going through it. You're just really really but the buttons. How was your week? Okay, so my week was actually very fun filled very. I know I keep talking about my, my body. I keep saying my personal journey. Yes, here we go. Mental health care to good mental health. Okay. I've learned about a few things. But one thing I have started doing is meditating. Oh,

Jim: 2:33

no. I mean sleeping. Sitting up and sleeping.

Bobby: 2:38

Oh, yes, baby. Give it to me. Yes, but no, apparently like. So apparently, when you meditate, you're supposed to go into like a sleep like state to where you're not doing anything. You become nothing. You are nothing. You are one with nothing. You are nothingness. Like, that's what your ultimate goal is to let time pass you without worrying about the time worrying about your physical body and worried about anything else like future or past like you've got to just totally release yourself get rid of your ego and sit in silence.

Jim: 3:09

Come through Dalai Lama.

Bobby: 3:10

And I might have had an attaboy when I first did this, but

Jim: 3:15

this sounds like when you're high but

Bobby: 3:17

it is it is always high and I was like I'm gonna meditate and I actually put on Spotify they had like this special frequent manifesting frequencies. So I put up frequencies and I started going What are frequencies Um, let me see if I can like find it so I can there's different ones like love and miracles being positive heel golden chakra manifester greatness when I started and now close your eyes become one with the earth so yeah, so I literally

Jim: 4:00

Wow um, so chakra is open so

Bobby: 4:03

edible frequency Wednesdays and then I was laying in bed and I was like, I'm just gonna meditate. And I feel like though when I did that, I did get in that state. He probably did and the minute you think about it, that you're in that state you're out of the state that's so fucked up. You've got to not that's why you got to be nothingness. You got to be nothing as far as long as you possibly can. And sometimes it feels like you're sleeping. And you might be and that's okay, apparently. And then I woke up it was seven it was like 7am on my alarm is going to wish no

Jim: 4:32

you have to get up.

Bobby: 4:34

I get up at six but don't worry with my sleep apnea, my sleep issues.

Jim: 4:38

Yeah, and that's another thing we're working on. Yeah, I

Bobby: 4:42

guess my my thing this week is self self reflection. And so putting yourself first health SELF SELF SELF say that four times self help self help self help. Self Help. Self. Okay, so yeah, so I also got to sleep study like preliminary exam.

Jim: 4:58

Wow, okay. Okay. And the results are not results are in

Bobby: 5:03

there. Oh, well, sort of they do say she goes, I always like it. Have you noticed any, like, weight gain over the past 10 years and I was like 10 years. Yeah, cuz I said it started 10 You're like, twice the size. I was not here. No, but I said, Actually, I've been pretty consistent. My answer and she goes,

Jim: 5:25

she was like, So 15 years ago.

Bobby: 5:28

What about 20? Like I'm consistently fat like I'm in the same zone. I've been for fucking 12 years.

Jim: 5:34

That's good though.

Bobby: 5:34

It is I'm consistent. I don't over eat. I eat the same way on the actually I need to cut it. But like I'm not over eat. I'm gonna have another

Jim: 5:42

No, it's like you've plateaued. Yeah, it's like I just saw we need right so I'm, I'm good. We don't want to be on the game. Train Gang. Gang gang. No, just game train. Oh,

Bobby: 5:51

I want to be on the train. You want to

Jim: 5:53

get run on the railroad? Rail, run rail run, rail ran. I want to get rammed. What about you, honey?

Bobby: 6:01

What's your life?

Jim: 6:02

I did a lot of work gain, like real work. Not real work. But I also I also put up some Christmas decorations. Not actually a fan. So finally like step son came over? Yes. He was like, I'm gonna go put lights outside which thankfully, he did that because I didn't want to go to school. I hate it. I didn't. And honestly, I didn't wanna bring the tree up alone. I didn't want to. I just didn't want to do a lot of it. But I understand having help. really shows that you can get things done.

Bobby: 6:31

Yeah, it's true when when there's actually people that are going to help you. Your life is better. I don't know where it's going. It's

Jim: 6:39

pretty amazing how the fuck Oh.

Bobby: 6:44

And I've all these buttons are just like fun. Okay, anyway, they may not have been Oh, Christmas lights are up. Are you in the Christmas spirit now?

Jim: 6:52

I think I'm getting there finally. Because it wasn't at all before they were having anybody. Yes. I literally was like, oh the trees I guess I'll put it up later. And then it just like

Bobby: 7:04

Sorry. Oh, are you okay? Yeah, the puppy. Like I thought she's going on something that she shouldn't be but she's just eating her toy up to where it's gonna be gone now. Yes, it is studying is now releasing. She's

Jim: 7:15

unstuffed. So so the Christmas spirit is like coming along. I just feel like no one is in it. Nobody and I

Bobby: 7:21

think you're either insider or an outsider. And by that I mean you're either decorating outside your house and not doing the inside. Are you doing the inside? Not the outside? I've not seen two people always. Oh, we've done the outside but haven't done the inside. We've gone inside, not the outside. So you're an insider? Yes. I'd rather be like the ambience in the living room when you're watching TV. Watching your favorite show like sex lives of college girls.

Jim: 7:40

I finished it yesterday. Like the actual series? Yeah, the whole show all 10 episodes. Yeah, it was really good. I

Bobby: 7:47

loved it. Like seriously, I loved it. It's good humor.

Jim: 7:50

I think it's great. Oh,

Bobby: 7:51

yay, you like something that I recommended? I recommended

Jim: 7:56

I think I'm a by side or then or bisexual or by sex because I have lights outside and inside sorry I'm perfect. Oh, you're just so your cider or an insider? I'm like I have no

Bobby: 8:07

idea how you're not both you're just a whore. Well what most people are

Jim: 8:14

just kidding. We don't want my eraser no

Bobby: 8:17

I'm not erasing the buys like I know that have a hard enough where the gays don't believe that they're really buy and the straights think they're just cheating on them. So it's like I get it. You know?

Jim: 8:27

That's so true. I don't care. I don't know if I could be with a bisexual I'm always worried they might cheat on me. I'm like, and

Bobby: 8:33

and you're not worried about anyone else boyfriend. It took five days. Literally it's like bath house. Which you've announced Matt.

Jim: 8:41

I've Dixit a bath house. Sounds familiar.

Bobby: 8:43

Speaking of bath houses. Check us out in Las Vegas on January 6 through the ninth which we're trying to really seal the deal on.

Jim: 8:52

I think we need to like sit down and set it up. But I just I want everyone listening to now they can come come come as you are calm as you

Bobby: 8:59

are. But like maybe spruce up a

Jim: 9:02

little. A little we don't want to we don't want to don't roll up the couch. I mean, I'm going to we're gonna not allow you will be an athleisure focus on leisure. I'm going to be looking at every little ad mostly leisure.

Bobby: 9:14

Mostly. Yeah, mostly leisure and that's fine. And that's fine because it's Vegas like Vegas.

Jim: 9:20

Like what people were there might have to run. Especially if we stay at what was that one? Yeah, you little pussy. Do you remember which was an MGM Grand? Which one? Which hotel gym did like 600 People get shot out of jam. Okay, so like maybe we don't stay near

Bobby: 9:36

promise that we're gonna do like a Priceline situation. And I'm a little concerned. I can't with you being poor like I'm sorry. I can't say $700 a night like no one says 700 200 to talk to daddy,

Jim: 9:52

Johnny. Merry Christmas.

Bobby: 9:54

Where's my button that I want?

Jim: 9:57

Oh, he's fucking with the

Bobby: 9:59

button. Oh, I'm trying to find the fucking button that I need. Okay. Oh wow girl. That's I've been trying to find this whole fucking time.

Jim: 10:08

I'm like, are you okay? Oh like I'm here like, I'm like If I hear one more inappropriate I'm about to break

Bobby: 10:14

your soundboard on fucking check. Okay?

Jim: 10:18

You worthless horror. Is there talk to daddy so

Bobby: 10:21

yeah, I didn't talk to daddy but we are gonna be coming to Vegas. Um January 6 through the ninth. We're trying to I have in the works media passes for the it's happening CIS CES, the SAS, CBS, CBS show or the SAS Conference, which is like all about technology, future technology stuff. Oh, so I'm trying to get us in there actually, because I want to look at the hearing impaired stuff. And I'm sorry, is there something funny, you know who my spirit animal was one of them?

Jim: 10:52

Someone who's deaf Helen

Bobby: 10:56

shrew. What I really want to do is and also my grandma

Jim: 11:04

my grandfather is deaf.

Bobby: 11:06

My grandmother actually started, she started I'm not gonna make her sound that much better. But she taught sign language ah, at this place.

Jim: 11:16

Just did a little play. So but

Bobby: 11:19

I want to really want to say I feel like it's very unfortunate that the hearing impaired can't hear how funny we are. That's not I'm saying I want them to be

Jim: 11:26

fortunate that the hearing impaired can't hear.

Bobby: 11:29

I think I will that to what I'm saying is that I want them to be able to have transcripts like legit. I want to look at the technology that they're working on to transcribe it basically like Korean captions. Yes. But they really need to work on dialects and they really need to work on some stuff because they're not getting it right all the time. Let's say let's do we have drunk and high for me. For me. For me, I'm a little bit fucked up. But I mean, like sometimes I have a little slaughter

Jim: 11:59

today. Oh my god, honey, I have a little slide. I don't think this is gonna help. Also

Bobby: 12:05

admit something about these glasses. And this is random. These fucking glasses I have on are fucking hideous. Yeah, excuse me that my word glasses. But second of all they are what's the UV kind that like change color light.

Jim: 12:17

I hate not even blue light word transition.

Bobby: 12:20

Yeah, you

Jim: 12:21

look like a pedophile with those. I know. You go outside and they're like getting darker. It's like, excuse me like your Are you okay?

Bobby: 12:27

I don't know why I got there. We're supposed to be like,

Jim: 12:30

I haven't been Listen, I have a story that I have to admit I had them in high school. Oh, so not only for being a big fat faggot. I also got bullied for having transition lenses. I mean, it was a double homicide. That was bad.

Bobby: 12:45

That was very high gay. For you, for you, are you? I mean, did it look like someone who would wear transit? Really? That's what's so weird. You do? I do. Cuz I'm a little chubby. I could see chubbiness. It's like we have a little city. As a man living you probably can when you have like a little titty, you can wear transitions and like fit in with the transition company or community. So which is not a compliment? Okay. You do not want like I don't like the transitions. I like pickup and white man's at the airport. No windows. No windows. No windows, like those old school dirty ass fucking ice cream trucks Hill.

Jim: 13:25

The we loved him. We ran right up to those as God. I love it. I want a SpongeBob popsicle.

Bobby: 13:30

I wanted the it was a glove and Red Rocket. Oh, I love red rock. Yeah, no, but I'm talking about the baseball glove and had the gun in the middle.

Jim: 13:39

Yep, that was you. Only the weird kids got that? Well,

Bobby: 13:43

guess what? Honey? guess one of the weird ones. I also like fucking Flintstone push pops.

Jim: 13:48

I don't hate you for that. I mean, those push pops. You

Bobby: 13:51

could suck those down to that platform top and then that top I would

Jim: 13:55

always leave that and then you push it through the car pops out on the socket. Yep.

Bobby: 14:00

Yep.

Jim: 14:01

You got to get that whole push pop. Okay.

Bobby: 14:04

Oh my god. I love when I get that fucking Porsche to Vegas.

Jim: 14:07

So Vegas. We're mainly I think, Brandon's our best bet. Brandon's probably the best bet RNNs our best bet I sometimes I should we ask volleyball people. Oh, that'd be hot. Yeah, girl. How about a hattrick

Bobby: 14:23

from good fucking soaps patch Ray. I would love for him to come last

Jim: 14:28

idea. I mean, I mean, I would do that. Oh, fuck. Really?

Bobby: 14:33

Yeah. And the thing is okay, um, yeah, trick is he's very much like us like he's very, he would easily plug in. Oh my god, like, Okay, we should have a guess honestly.

Jim: 14:47

How Vegas he's gonna. Okay, well, I

Bobby: 14:50

think he'd be a fun one and come lathered

Jim: 14:51

up and I might actually have a nice room so he could stay in mind. Yeah, I'll be in the shower at the Ramada. Oh, you're at that Ramada. That's like We Whoa, it's like $80 a night right on. I mean, I mean, honey, it's not cute, but it is what it

Bobby: 15:09

is. Some people can only afford that and that's okay. Okay, you can still get tickets, just like you can at the fucking.

Jim: 15:14

You probably have a better chance of getting a ticket to remodel your truck because it's like, more affordable. And they're probably right outside the Ramada like on the street is a really bad lad. Oh, no. Is it bad that you wanna have a rich

Bobby: 15:28

dick? No, by that? I mean, like, I feel like rich men are and then their dicks are not impressed. They're never they're never impressed. So I don't have to work for it. But like, yes, but just just to have that moment of like, I'm a pretty pretty woman. Is that what it's called? Yeah, I'm

Jim: 15:43

a pretty woman with What's that

Bobby: 15:44

movie?

Jim: 15:45

I didn't see it the one with what's her name? Julia Roberts. Yeah, I did not watch really why would I watch that? I don't know. I've seen on TBS. Exactly if there if it's on TBS. I'm not gonna watch it. Like, oh, TBS has it on again. Special. It's cut. Cut perfectly all day. We're playing it on a loop. Like I'm like, I don't want

Bobby: 16:04

to hear anymore. Because I do think he has a nice deck.

Jim: 16:07

He Yeah. Gray hair. Mm hmm. So you want to

Bobby: 16:11

use I want to like any woman, like, I want to be like, attracting a rich deck. Yeah. Okay. And that's like a thrill for me like to be able to go into like a big rich hotel and like, set the bar. That's like a hot like moment for me. And

Jim: 16:23

you know, it's like coming. You're like, it's gonna be completely what? Oh,

Bobby: 16:28

we gotta leave. Yeah, no, she's

Jim: 16:30

got to go. I can

Bobby: 16:34

come out here for a minute. Go ahead, baby. You Nikki's. Joe. No, you're stinky. Sorry, folks.

Jim: 16:43

Puppy folks. With an axe.

Bobby: 16:46

Yes.

Jim: 16:48

I mean, that was foul. And it's still, you know,

Bobby: 16:52

we're talking about it was redacted. And there was this fucking stinky ass pup. That's why I'm at the Ramada.

Jim: 16:56

And that's, that's why, but like, how do you even prepare for each stick, though? Like you don't? So it's a lot of pretending. Right? Because you're gonna be like, oh, yeah,

Bobby: 17:07

you gotta be like, Oh, you're hot.

Jim: 17:10

Oh, and they're probably a little older. Yeah, so it's like, like, but they're probably so.

Bobby: 17:17

Put their wrench. That's what makes them

Jim: 17:18

hot. Take care of you. Yeah, really well taken care of.

Bobby: 17:23

And I think that might be part of the childhood trauma.

Jim: 17:25

Oh, no,

Bobby: 17:27

let's not go back into not but like, I think having somebody take care of you is a really

Jim: 17:31

hot mess. But I didn't really have trauma for my parents. And I still love being taken care of baby. But that doesn't mean I want to be picked up, driven around taken out to eat lay down on the bed.

Unknown: 17:40

That's kind of lifestyle, honey. Yeah.

Jim: 17:43

That's right. The preference. You're like, oh, that's all I've known. That is all I've known actually. Rachel Kant. Oh my god. Oh, she's she's lingering. That's you now she lingering? stench?

Bobby: 17:56

She stinks that dog for like, I don't know what

Jim: 17:59

what is it? What are you feeding her? Why are we feeding a dog

Bobby: 18:03

land because she can't have anything else. She can't have oily like the chicken and duck is very oily and apparently makes her shut her brains out. She has a really bad puppy problem. Oh, so that's why she eats lamb chop. Or Sheezus. Christ.

Jim: 18:17

You're talking about me being having a rich lifestyle. Yeah, wish your dog eats lamb.

Bobby: 18:21

We got a few things. We do have a few things. First thing though, is somebody wrote

Jim: 18:26

us? Oh, no. You're gonna have to read it. Yeah. As you put on your glasses. Yeah, like I have

Bobby: 18:31

to see the email to send to you. But you're reading.

Jim: 18:33

Now Jesus. Whoa, girl. Hi, Bobby. And Jim, I need some insight. And you guys talk about getting older and changing. It was difficult enough to get guys in my 20s. Now that I'm 30 and the very end at the very early stages of getting wiser.

Bobby: 18:49

Whoa, we'll start over sister friend Honey, what was happening there with that reading? Because I had to add a word. Do you need to edit it before? Yeah, I mean, like, skim it first before I need

Jim: 18:58

to skim because there's some errors. Well, we can't help but that Aaron doesn't know how to spell. Hi, Bobby. And Jim, I need some insight. And you guys talk about getting older and changing. It was difficult enough to get guys in my 20s. Now that I'm 30 in the very early stages of getting wiser are showing up parentheses just some lines that weren't in my face when I left in my 20s. I'm thinking about if it was difficult for you guys not being as high or as young as you were. And how did you feel about it? So is calling us old and ugly? What did you do to overcome this? I'm more confident than ever, but I feel like it's not going to get easier for me. What is funny enough is that back in the day I went out with guys and whatever legal age. Nowadays, I'm more inclined to 25 plus guys really don't want to deal with immaturity even if it shows up in something not that in someone not that young. I'm afraid to be one of those guys that can't deal with aging and start to do things for external validation. It's not something that I want for myself. Does it get worse or better? Aaron I mean, there's a lot there's less unpack this is a good email. Yeah, Aaron,

Bobby: 20:02

thank you for sending this in as Aaron. He must have found us on Reddit. I've been doing posts. I really

Jim: 20:06

like this so good thought because it's like, Well, I'm a little I'm wondering. He's like now I'm more inclined to 25 plus guys and I'm like, I'm a little concerned. He's only 30 Right and that's why I'm concerned for how we might be a little too old them if you think you're getting old at 30 Honey,

Bobby: 20:22

we got we got Ximenes gotten us to Tama table 37. Okay, okay, it's not.

Jim: 20:29

It's not it's not it hurts. It's everyday is painful. Every day. Like you've plateaued. You're you peaked, you're

Bobby: 20:37

on the way down and you got to figure out how do I sustain my life for the next 30 years? Or was that face? Your face? Just I was like, wow, girl.

Jim: 20:48

I was like, next 30 years. I like you're being generous. Honey, I'll be Honey,

Bobby: 20:53

honey. Okay, so Aaron's getting older Aaron's 30 Now let's unpack this. So he's getting wiser quote, unquote. Okay, so it sounds like he's also getting wiser in personality. Like, I want to hang out immature people anymore. We also have some smile lines. And that's okay. How can you not that's on God. That means you're actually living a good life.

Jim: 21:12

If you don't sweat. Yeah. When I see people with no wrinkles, I'm like, Are you do you change your face ever?

Bobby: 21:17

Now? Let's not get too crazy, because I want to get somebody to do Botox on me

Jim: 21:21

because a little jagged line there.

Bobby: 21:26

It's a one it's not. It's a one. It's a goddamn one.

Jim: 21:29

So he's like, realizing that things are changing. And he wants to see if I don't know. Is he worried about who we can hook up with? Yeah. Pull the deck he pulled when here's the thing. He will you will. It's amazing. You will

Bobby: 21:43

all about confidence. And when you hit your 30s You're more of like the 20 year old hot ones want to sleep with you because you have it together,

Jim: 21:49

aka me in LA like crowds, like literally three weeks ago, right? I was like, why are these cute? twinks coming up to me right between couple one adapter three some righty. And it's true. They're like, how old are you? I'm like, 34 They're like, Oh, wow.

Bobby: 22:04

And I'm like, this is easy. It's too late for me. I mean, I gotta go tonight.

Jim: 22:08

It was 2am So I was Oh my god. I know. It's inappropriate.

Bobby: 22:12

I mean, Aaron, the thing is, is that I don't think you I think you're more you're worried about pulling ass but that's where I'm more concerned about the it's not even the age thing. I

Jim: 22:20

think it's more your confidence. That's it. That's literally it. Yeah, like you just need to get some I look very different compared I looked at my 20s Like, say A plus 30 pounds wrinkle and plus five pounds a lot harder to tits. I mean, it's different things are different. But also, I'm I'm getting more Dick now than I've ever in my entire life.

Bobby: 22:39

I think there's a reason for that confidence, confidence in like understanding who you are as a human. And what you actually are seeking.

Jim: 22:47

Yes. When you grow and find out what you need and what you want.

Bobby: 22:50

Like attracts like, and we talked about that before and the universe and everything like if you if you are looking for somebody hot somebody hot will come looking for you. I think that's probably true. Yeah, So Aaron, and also these immature people. Yeah, don't fuck with them. Yeah.

Jim: 23:05

Yeah, you can just sleep with them. Yeah,

Bobby: 23:06

don't legally quote unquote, whatever you said illegal, maybe not.

Jim: 23:11

And I think I think you're gonna find them just as hot. Because what I find hot now is very different than what I found hot when my 20 Very true. Like, I'm looking at the people I'm attracted to now. And I'm like, Oh, I probably wouldn't know. But I don't really think that unless I stop and go like, is this person objectively like, this is what I wanted. Right? Not what I wanted, then. No, I'm

Bobby: 23:29

lying. So definitely, this is 100% what I want now and there's things not just physical, but like also personality wise, like you might think you want a certain type of guy and reality is and to be honest, most of us end up with the opposite of what we absolutely think we're going to be with. So that's true for Holy shit. Which I don't think it's a bad thing. I

Jim: 23:47

don't think it's bad at all.

Bobby: 23:48

Let's look we're about to do we're about to plan a trip to Vegas, no worries. Foreigners are worried about the partner and we've traveled for years, we can do whatever we want free Handys from my room 4850 at the Ramada and free everything from my room, you can get all

Jim: 24:02

ham for me from row you can get a handy from Bobby, you're gonna

Bobby: 24:05

have an ironic staring a lot of next sort of gyms room and just get fogged. So pick your poison.

Jim: 24:14

I'm wondering though, I do see what he's worried about. I'm afraid to be one of those guys that can't deal with aging and start to do things for external validation. It's because he's 30. I remember 30 was a big thing. It's a change in your life for and I'm like, Well, right. And actually after 30 You have that freedom. I'm like, oh

Bobby: 24:29

my god, I'm 30. I'm like in a different classification. But then you realize you're in the better classification. So just Aaron, hang on, and

Jim: 24:35

can we but we need to talk about extra money because I see so many gays doing this, okay, they change who they are. Not just how they look. I'm all for like doing what you want with your body. Go ahead and do it, do it. But some people are doing it for the wrong reasons. I don't know that they're doing it for themselves. I think they're doing it for how they appear to other people because they want to attract people. Yeah, I'm seeing people spending money. They don't have driving cars. They don't need an X validation. That's exactly it's like, why are you doing this? Why are you acting this way? Why are you doing this? We're seeing it we're seeing I think it's a fear of death ultimately, a fear of aging. It is because you're like, This is my only time I have to do this I have to do well, if I don't do it now, what about next decade? It'll be even worse than that. And it's like, no, just be yourself and accept yourself at your current age and just move on.

Bobby: 25:21

So what am I like, I had to write down like things that I don't want to be anymore and what happens when I get to be that thing and then and then I also dug like, super deep, like, I'm not gonna talk about it deep, like deep.

Jim: 25:32

Are you sure you're not gonna know? I'm sure. Like, I

Bobby: 25:34

excavated something though. That was like hitting very fucking deep. And I feel like since I excavated that we were there like, lift it up a T Rex skeleton. Yeah, it was deep. And I was like, Oh, wow, I didn't even think that was affecting me. But it is it was fucked. Like I'm really searching deep, deep. Before he said deep it was like, both my fat face.

Jim: 25:57

It's all about just like, slide into someone's bow. It's

Bobby: 26:02

disgusting. Oh, yeah. Excavating excavating

Jim: 26:10

memory of AD and I'm on an escalator excavating.

Bobby: 26:13

You are never going to be happy in your life until you understand who you are and who you are as and who you think you are as an adult, because you have past traumas that are hiding the real you and that you protect yourself from at all times. So you're constantly in fight or flight. Do you even know who you are? Probably not. Because you've hidden serious?

Jim: 26:32

Are you talking to me everyone?

Bobby: 26:33

Oh, okay. Well, do I need to be talking to you? No.

Jim: 26:37

I think I'm fully excavated. I think I'm filled with hope. Um,

Bobby: 26:40

you're not filled enough with holes. Oh,

Jim: 26:43

listen, well, that is one thing is as you get

Bobby: 26:46

older, you see more holes and you have more holes. Oh, well, it doesn't work. I'm gonna learn to blow honey. Let me tell you cuz you're gonna be rotated. That's why I'm on the Handys like just work your handy if you can give a good handyman can come in four minutes, like us? Probably less.

Jim: 27:03

Even better yet if you have a toy. Like all you

Bobby: 27:06

do is put a finger near the hole as you're stroking them and you don't do it right away. No, yeah, you wait. Because that's what every and every man won't admit this. They love it the closer to get the money you're getting closer to coming you'll take anything anywhere because it's like any kind of outside pleasure will get you so you put that finger really great hole like really close with on the hole on the whole but you want to slide it like you want to Okay, as they're working up and like getting ready to go. You want to get working up closer to their hole. Yes. And then wow, honey,

Jim: 27:36

you have big fingers. So

Bobby: 27:38

honey, these these sausage fingers?

Jim: 27:41

You do have sausage? Yeah, like it's just our little Oh no, I've

Bobby: 27:45

hot hands. Oh, so eating process. Those

Jim: 27:49

are your don't tell Aaron but the hands get

Bobby: 27:51

uglier. If you would like to email us at she's not doing so well@gmail.com I'm not changing our fucking email address, because I just we've already done so many fucking changes. I can't just have a new email yet. Hell no, no, she's not doing so well. gmail.com He must email us your questions or concerns. We will give you some advice if we can help.

Jim: 28:07

So in conclusion, he said Does it get worse or better? I would say better. Yeah, the end. I'm not trying to be like the Trevor Project. Hold on. Like, It Gets Better Project.

Bobby: 28:16

Don't worry.

Jim: 28:17

I remember that. When I was coming out. I was like, does it and then it does. And it did but like because there's Yeah. And also and I don't think it had to do with that. I don't think everybody gets better. A lot of people don't we know some people are not doing well.

Bobby: 28:31

Do you think we should start a campaign and It Gets Better campaign and it gets worse campaign?

Jim: 28:37

Actually, yes. It will like the pictures are all the faces like Oh,

Bobby: 28:41

you think it's bad now?

Jim: 28:42

Wait till drug use. Wait till wait till you lose all your friends. Yeah, because you're acting crazy. Just wait. It gets worse.

Bobby: 28:49

It gets worse.

Jim: 28:50

That's a good project. I

Bobby: 28:51

like it. I like it gets worse project.

Jim: 28:54

Okay, we can try that.

Bobby: 28:55

Try it. Join us for the it's good. Cuz I can't speak English. I can't What do you

Jim: 29:01

speak then? Oh, la la

Bobby: 29:02

la la la la, la la la, la, my tongues in the way. Email us, we'll help you. Maybe it gets worse

Jim: 29:09

when you have a stroke.

Bobby: 29:10

It gets worse

Jim: 29:11

on podcast. I've been wondering recently, I think with all the like holiday parties and things going on. This has come up a couple times the past few weeks. Okay. Do you ever think that there are just some events and some spaces that gay people will never be welcome in? What it means is well, yeah, like, do you think that you have? Do you have straight friends? Because like, I have straight friends now. And I'm always wondering, Am I not invited to a lot of stuff because of being gay? Right? And I'm not just wondering,

Bobby: 29:41

like holiday parties, but you're not at like the side parties.

Jim: 29:44

I'm not even at the holiday parties. Yeah. There's been a few straight parties the past few weeks where I'm like, wow, I thought it would be I'm like friends with all of them. And then it's like it's interesting. Weird. I wonder though, because I mean, I maybe I shouldn't I shouldn't make this about all gays. But I Right like when I asked him about it like there's no problem we haven't had a fight or anything. There's just been like events wasn't

Bobby: 30:05

like should have been because you should be able to celebrate some of these barriers.

Jim: 30:09

It's usually like sit down couple dinners where it's like the straight couples are going to have dinner.

Bobby: 30:14

But why wouldn't a gay couple be invited? Do you know what I mean? Like right and figure out what

Jim: 30:17

I'm like, what is wrong? What is it? What would we do? How would we mess up the vibe up?

Bobby: 30:21

I didn't even like Mansi boys.

Jim: 30:23

I don't know. That's interesting because I and I'm sure well, it's like when I look around, there's all these there's all these things that straight people do that a lot of gay people aren't welcome at especially I know you love sports, but there's a lot of sports events that gay people don't want to go too sure. Because of the people who are there sure. So it's funny to me because like we have you know the volleyball gays like all the gays have formed their own events like we have volleyball right? kick ball my men were talking to bride bride pride. I was like bride bra we like to play bra we love brides prime prime like we had to build our own on went last Wednesday I went to like a gay Dart League. That was really fun talking about lounge I'm going to join it I want to do but it's just like we have to make our own activities because we are excluded from a lot of things

Bobby: 31:08

a bingo you want to do bingo. They do gay bingo though. Oh, really? First gaming.

Jim: 31:13

What's the age raid and Shawn?

Bobby: 31:15

What does it matter age just. Oh, it gets don't

Jim: 31:19

tell Aaron. It gets worse. I could do. I'll do bingo. You

Bobby: 31:22

can drink because fun. Yeah, it's an excuse to go to the bar and it's okay. It's not like I would do that.

Jim: 31:28

I was picturing like an old cafeteria. Oh, yeah. Where you're sitting there lady for

Bobby: 31:35

is that even? I don't even talk me far. I don't remember. Bingo. Like I'm playing like that would

Jim: 31:39

be the B column. Yeah,

Bobby: 31:40

I 40

Jim: 31:43

Bingo.

Bobby: 31:44

Be I NGO B. NGO. Me and Gio and Bingo was his name? Oh. Chill. That's interesting. No, no,

Jim: 31:57

you don't have you never felt like uninvited into a straight space. I'm surprised because probably because you

Bobby: 32:04

know what, let's grow. But you know what? It's kind of funny. You say that? Because even at like work events, like say like it's the Christmas luncheon. And we're on the cafeteria and I walk in. I always feel like they're thinking there's the gay one. Oh, that's so sad.

Jim: 32:16

I do too. Wow, girl, I feel other I feel othered all the time. All the time. That's interesting. Cuz I don't I think I'm just used to it. Probably a lot of our own insecurity. Do

Bobby: 32:25

you think maybe it is or

Jim: 32:26

probably is, which is why I've kind of given it up right. So when I feel it, I just literally let it go. I'm like, Okay, well, maybe that's just me being me. That's therapy. Maybe I've internalized some of what is not really happening. And I'm like, worried it's my own anxiety, right? Because you're walking into a room thinking Oh, my God without it. But then you get to an event and you realize that is what happened? Or like you hear a comment as you're walking away from the group or it's like, and you're like, oh, okay, so maybe it was right that time. Oh, that's sad. But, but Merry Christmas.

Bobby: 32:55

But let's also flip it flip the script, flip it baby.

Jim: 32:57

Put your thing down, flip it and reverse. We

Bobby: 32:59

do let fucking brides speaking of brides come into our safe spaces and celebrate their situation. So but we do are we thrilled? No. Do we really want them there? So is it the same thing then?

Jim: 33:13

No. Well,

Bobby: 33:14

if we do well, I guess we're doing it. We're copying. We're straight copying. Yeah, I

Jim: 33:18

would say they are normally welcome.

Bobby: 33:21

I know. We're just too nice. We

Jim: 33:23

Yeah, we're normally like, we're nice. I always take shots with them. Cuz I'm like, this is kind of fun. It is annoying when you can't get a drink because the entire bar is filled by like bridesmaids, right? And you're like honeys like this is our space. Like Hi, we don't have other bars to go to you can go to 18 other bars down the street and meanwhile, they're blocked on gay drinks. And they are because they're like, oh my god, I

Bobby: 33:43

went on Long Island. It's like you're gonna have one you're gonna have one and you're gonna barf. You're gonna barf and it's like later from like Costa Rica. Oh, shit. Oh, they buy shit ball. Okay, I chain.

Jim: 33:54

Here's something else. I've been thinking about the past couple weeks, I am trying to learn how to live with people as they are and resist trying to change them. Oh, yeah. I think we're both doing that. Because yeah, there are some people in my life that I have put so much energy into, to try to see if I can get them to be a little bit better or get a little further in their life. And it doesn't help, right because they're not ready or they don't want to they don't want to change and they might not ever honestly, they probably won't change for a long time or whatever, if ever, because at this point, it's like how many years into this RV? what motivation do you need to get to change your life? And I don't know, like, I really I'm getting tired of it. It's honestly exhausting to try to change people. It's not worth it. Right? And that's what I've learned. That's what I've like reflected on him like why I need to stop and you stop.

Bobby: 34:46

No, you're 100% right, because that's what I do. You do? Yeah, you try. You're very similar in that like where we are like maybe you involved, get too involved in and be like, Hey, man, if I get my little advice here, they're like, maybe not I think and this has happened numerous times in my life. Oh, Over and over and over and over again. And what I'm learning is, number one, you really do have to watch out for yourself. And if it's bothering you, then you shouldn't be doing it, in my opinion now going forward, like if, if something that a friend is doing that's like bothering me, I mean, I guess I could say something to him like, hey, but I'm also not gonna, I can't keep trying to fix you know, I'm saying like,

Jim: 35:19

I agree, because I noticed behaviors. And I'm like, I thought we talked about this, how that behavior is problematic. And then it's like, it's happening again. And so my book I'm telling you, yeah, so it's just like, why is that? Why am I letting it bother me? Why am I letting it and habit space in my mind? Why am I writing it myself? Spend an hour being like upset about it, right? So upset about this, like, This is crazy. It's like know that we don't have time for that. No, no more. We have to go to Las Vegas. Let's not have to Air and Air and you get wiser once you get 30 wiser you know, no more. No more.

Bobby: 35:49

No more bullshit took me 37. But well, it

Jim: 35:52

took Bobby a little longer.

Bobby: 35:52

I mean, it took me a book on tape. Yeah, that's right. I had to read. Well, first was rango experience high. And then it was that it was high meditating, meditating and moving just to get like Ben was, and then

Jim: 36:07

choices souls. I don't know. For me, it's like, for me, for me. I just am like annoyed with it. I finally was like, I had to write this down and

Bobby: 36:16

talk about on when do you cut it off, though? Like, when do you make that choice to go matures? And

Jim: 36:20

I'm thinking of like, I'm still interacting with him. And I'm still like, go, I recently went to dinner with him. Right? So I'm still like, trying but why? But I don't know why. It's definitely one. Yeah. See, this was a different dinner and that I like didn't even bring up anything that I knew would bother me because I knew what the answers were going to be right where I'm like, How are you doing with your dating life? How are you doing with this? Or that? I didn't bring this up. I was like, I'm not going to talk about it. You can talk about it. If you want. I've already given you the advice I need to give you so you're not going to change it. Okay. Okay, but I'm not gonna keep giving you the advice. Yeah. No, you can't you keep asking. But it's like, why don't you repeat it

Bobby: 36:57

again, some people don't want to change and some people want the want. This is the relationship they want. They want somebody to be taking care of them and constantly looking out because then that means somebody cares about them. Right? That's true. So it's like a double edged sword. It's a control thing, but it's both of you. It's both. Yeah, you're both you're kind of like so you're losing each other. It's codependent codependency and why do I? Why do I keep getting into these relationships? I don't know. That's what you got to do to honey, right? No, that's why I'm done. That's why I'm meditating. That's why I'm releasing all these books on tape. Like honey, I'm done. You really are talking done? Like don't cross me. Oh, that's a fact. Jack. I'm not actually a fan. So yeah, you got to stop. Okay, well, you do.

Jim: 37:40

I'm going to gotta stop attacking me.

Bobby: 37:44

I'm not babe. Okay.

Jim: 37:46

There is one other thing, but I would like to give you a try.

Bobby: 37:50

I can do a try. We have we talked about a lazy susan before.

Jim: 37:53

Nope. We have. I don't remember that. Because I have one. And it's just weird to me. Like first of all. Why? Why? Literally, I'm like, I get it like lately.

Bobby: 38:03

Like where did the names why Susan? Why not marry? Why not lazy Beth.

Jim: 38:07

Honestly, in my life. Why not lazy Bobby. Exactly. With an eye. The ie ie Are you an IE? No. Bitch. Are you transitioning? Yeah. Susan.

Bobby: 38:18

So I read some stuff. I don't know if it was Thomas Edison or Thomas Jefferson. I think it was Thomas Jefferson. Thomas. Helen Keller, his daughter. His name was Susan. And he made a thing called a was it

Jim: 38:29

one of his white daughters or half black daughters.

Bobby: 38:32

But what I'm thinking is what I'm thinking Lee it was called a lazy server or something server because it's been around swivel. Okay, and so then they got nicknamed, like lazy Susan. I kind of like that though. But that also I read also it's also the Chinese that founded the also also in such as, and the Chinese. Chinese are putting they're like, no, no, honey. No, no. Honey. Honey, honey tea, so yeah, Lazy Susan blah, blah. Do you have a rat tail? That's another thing that came up for some reason.

Jim: 39:11

I never had a rat tail. And every time I saw a kid with one I was like, Mommy that's trashy. It was it was always yes, it was always hot water. The ones that smelled like hot dog water. True. Oh shit. It was

Bobby: 39:24

why I feel bad for the hot dog waters of the world.

Jim: 39:27

I honestly I do want to eat the hot dog. But I'm like, did

Bobby: 39:31

you grow up again?

Jim: 39:32

I see rat tail. That's fine. I just feel so bad. Yeah, it's like what's what about that? What's it's about? Like really like someone explain what does a rat tail why why they got my hair's too thick to have around it. So you can grab the kid by the hair and just like pull them around. Yeah, like how? It's like a mullet. That's not a mala. It's like a cheaper leash for your kid. I had a real one. You had a really she were I'm upperclass problem child. Oh,

Bobby: 39:57

I don't think I wasn't I was loved to run Things Run, things change don't they jam rat tails or just create Why did you see a rat tail? No, but for some reason rat tail came up and I was like, I'm gonna talk about it.

Jim: 40:09

Oh hon and the other thing that I have listed I just noticed your beard is really salt and pepper now,

Bobby: 40:14

you know so I know that like because this is certainly more something from this side.

Jim: 40:17

Yeah, like all Yeah,

Bobby: 40:19

I'm turning. No, yeah, I'm going gray is. But I want to talk about something. I've been talking out loud. A lot. But I

Jim: 40:28

I really have you've been talking a lot all night all the time. I talk out loud. That's how you talk. I'm talking out loud talking out loud. Okay, Ed Sheeran,

Bobby: 40:38

like read my read my my voice. Oh my god. I'm going to read your voice. Yes.

Jim: 40:42

Is this about the sea? No, no translation. No.

Bobby: 40:45

I'm like, ready to, like, explore sexuality more. I'm like, really into

Jim: 40:59

ready to experience sexuality more? I'm like, we've been talking about handjobs blowjobs. Like rich Dick, I have. Experience.

Bobby: 41:13

Really? Let me be more clear. Are you interested in something that you haven't done yet? Maybe but like more like I'm really into male bonding. I really want to have like a retreat with men that doesn't necessarily have to get fully sexual, but it will. Okay, but like it's more on a platonic level where you like really connect?

Jim: 41:31

Yes. Do you want male friends?

Bobby: 41:34

Is that what I'm longing for? Is that what I'm looking for straight male friends? Oh, that's so so I wanted to hold me. Yes. And they won't, but they will. If we go on the retreat.

Jim: 41:43

It'll take like two sets arms to do it. But they'll

Bobby: 41:47

come back. They're like, oh, oh, let me make a new little mountain and like rock me. Oh, rock me to sleep baby. Rock Me. Like a whack. I mean, like you're Polly. Right? So like, I'm just been questioning just like the social or from I speak English. The social norms of like sexuality and sexual play. Place play flesh. things out, but a place flesh some some. I'm ready for some new sex play. Just say that. I want to have like a great board or

Jim: 42:23

sexual one. I wonder if you're like trying to like you wanna have sex with women now? Or like, yeah, exactly. So I'm like, do you just mean you won't have more sex?

Bobby: 42:31

No, not even sex. So it's like it's like a longing for connection of a bigger group of people. What are you making fun of me for you know,

Jim: 42:41

connection. I'm like connection of penis into but like, I just don't know what you're gonna say. The connection of

Bobby: 42:50

my penis is in my face. But I don't necessarily want to touch him. But maybe I do. And I think

Jim: 42:56

you're wondering and I've also been wondering, is do you have a kink? We need to talk about this? Well, I think I have a kink.

Bobby: 43:02

What is your kink?

Jim: 43:04

I think I have well, I don't know actually. I don't know. I'm not sure like

Bobby: 43:10

I like what's your like? kink like, like,

Jim: 43:13

I want to be dominated. Oh, yeah. You're like that is no but not like just like, you like getting aggressive at the very end is you know, like you watch everything I want to be tied up because I've been watching these videos on Instagram. I'll show you you

Bobby: 43:29

want to be you get tied up. You're you're gonna be the sub is what you're saying? Yeah, and you're I mean, you can't move you want to be tied up and like spam or just want to be like tied up in like tortured, like, tie me up into a sexually tortured anything. Are you naked? Are you clothed? No, you have to be naked nude all nude? But I

Jim: 43:45

also want to be like, maybe well choked.

Bobby: 43:48

I don't know. No, that's okay. Talk about it. What makes you want to be choked? Because like the other person's

Jim: 43:53

in control, I

Bobby: 43:54

find it obrah What makes you want to be choked up and everything else. So childhood trauma. Was it the childhood trauma I'm writing about?

Jim: 44:04

Was it the trauma? The trauma had to be trauma did daddy choke you? choked you when you were younger? So you who choked you? It's true. I don't know. I don't know why I just kind of want to try that. But I'm like,

Bobby: 44:16

choked like okay, well let's get more specific. Pacific Pacific specific in this Pacific Ocean. Can you tell me is it like when you're gonna come? Is it the whole time? Is it random when more even randomly like before during like you would like to be choked against the wall and like make out and though

Jim: 44:33

Yeah. Oh my god. Yeah, yeah. Yo, yo, yo,

Bobby: 44:36

bro. Brah brah choke me out bro. Shoot me bro. No homo socks on no homo socks. Get your ticket, bro. Like okay,

Jim: 44:44

okay, fine, literally anytime and I'll leave. I'll leave on my clothes on to it. I'll

Bobby: 44:49

leave my clothes on I'll just give you a fucking straight up flowy handy. Oh, our whole

Jim: 44:54

at the end the end? I don't know. I just like feel like choking would be fun. But I mean, those are my two Big kinks right now that I'm thinking I want to get into explore. I want to explore

Bobby: 45:03

I want to explore some sounds and be like comfortable. Yeah, I think that the word I'm and this goes back to Aaron kind of question. Yep. As you get older I think if you can find that comfort level then you can try to use more than you will not even believe will blow your mind how

Jim: 45:19

insane it is and how you're afraid wondering why you are in you might have a kink of blue khaki.

Bobby: 45:24

Oh, come over me.

Jim: 45:25

I think you wouldn't be in the middle of like eight dicks around you and have them all come on you because you've talked about that thing about we just didn't call it that before. Sure.

Bobby: 45:34

Sure. Sure. Sure. Sure. Sure. chicks around Georgia sharp, sharp, sharp sharp. No, but I honestly think that some other things I think are hot and so fucking bizarre. I don't know why this is like a real creepy kink. And this is actually like a creepy livery. It's not creepy. It's more interesting, but they do have a genre of this. So it's well that it's usually close female. Nail

Jim: 45:58

it CF nm

Bobby: 46:00

Yeah, I like my 111 clothes. I want to be I want to be the clothes. Oh, 100 and I want to unclothed somebody and totally have the full control Liberty choice. That's our consent. The consensual liberal liberty and central Liberty one it gets worse. Okay, it gets better. I was doing our tagline but didn't really I was

Jim: 46:21

like, how does it get worse if you have consent? No, we don't. Okay, we do.

Bobby: 46:26

We do have consent. Okay, so now Yeah, fully consensual, but that turns me on.

Jim: 46:31

Oh, no. 100% I agree. Like, even when I'm with my partner, I'm like, I'll just see on the bad like, I'll do alcohol too dirty. Because then when I'm done, I want to get up and go downstairs and play a video game per rack. I don't want to clean up or anything. Like

Bobby: 46:44

and actually, I'll just be honest, really quick for like a moment. There was a little close mail me Yeah. And unclosed person. Yeah, my partner anymore. It turned me on so much that then I decided to add spot which I don't even like, I can't get excited. So like, exactly. There are things I'm realizing that and that's what I mean, when I say explore sexuality, like what do I want to wear? Tail? Yeah,

Jim: 47:07

well, I want to write I've that's the thing is after 38 folk, I'm focusing more on

Bobby: 47:12

how do I get off? How do you make yourself happy instead of trying to fucking please everybody. I'm

Jim: 47:16

not trying to I if I if he gets pleased along the way, good. No, good. Yeah. And I'm not trying to like knock on him. I'm saying it's about me too. There's a lot of misconceptions for

Bobby: 47:25

people like us who we bend over backwards for people thinking that we're gonna get the same back and we don't. And that could be sexually and everything.

Jim: 47:32

But, but I think we have to focus on ourselves too, right? So

Bobby: 47:35

we don't focus on ourselves ever. So don't realize how pleasurable it can be. So then we talk about and we sound selfish, like, really, I will talk about me now. Yeah, no, we still want you to be pleased. We still want to take care of you. But it's in taking care of us that then it'll be taken care of you instead of being one sided and like not, because we're happy, you're gonna be happy.

Jim: 47:55

Trust me, I know. Ouch. I told my part I was he knows that. Well, he knows this. It's like he's more turned on if I'm turned on. Because I didn't realize that over the years when I'm like doing things to him. But it doesn't involve me because I'm like, checked out or I'm just writing I just want to take her You see, you're happy. That doesn't do it. He doesn't get as excited. What gets him excited? This is what I want to do because it could get me off and then like we do that and then he's like, even if it's not like conventional or whatever it is that I want and then it's like that was so hot is what he said that last week Awesome. That was so hot. And I'm like yeah, it's so easy you it was You're welcome right like cuz I was into his I'm flawless. So we have to we have to reconnect when you say explore your sexuality.

Bobby: 48:42

I mean, all of it though, reconnect with your sexuality. Like I want to be able to walk into a room of people in jocks and throw in a jock. I want to be able to walk into a bathhouse fully nude and not give a fuck. I could do that. But I'd still give a fuck. You know, I'm saying like, I don't want to do that though. Well, yeah, because I did that this fall. I know. I

Jim: 49:02

know. It's amazing, right? That sometimes.

Bobby: 49:05

You get what you need. And I needed it. I needed I really did. You did today?

Jim: 49:10

I did. And we actually had a fight that day because I didn't want to go with him. Oh, sorry. Literally, like he talked. He took me there and I was like, I don't want to fuck you raw. Sorry. Don't I don't want to do it. And you shouldn't have to. And then he got mad and I was like, but if you're gonna be mad over this, like now this is where I'm going in my life. I haven't gone now and that's what you should I walked around and still had fun if someone's getting mad at you. Yeah, it's their problem, right? Like that's what I need to start listening to myself. Like I am not responsible for how other people feel about me

Bobby: 49:40

right like I can't help it that you're mad that I don't want to go jerk you off in the corner. No, it's really interesting not I think we're growing like I think he sees in Vegas on January

Jim: 49:54

so we're gonna be grown. I'm gonna be grown because it's after Christmas. A lot of desserts. Yeah. Oh hobby a bear will be. I'm going to be a bear. Yeah, we're

Bobby: 50:03

gonna be very cubby and Berry. Oh, I love being a little otter. You're an otter. I mean,

Jim: 50:09

wait till we go to the pool.

Bobby: 50:10

Have you beefed up bab?

Jim: 50:11

I'm beefed no full 100% American grown that's fine.

Bobby: 50:15

Okay, this is we're gonna be on Vegas, and I've been also manifesting which is, you know, actually, I gotta believe it. I have to believe that you have to, you have to have you have to have you got to believe that's already happened and you got to be living in that space and feel that feeling and I'm feeling like we're gonna end up being like comped and like high rolled out. III don't know why. I don't know what it is. Baby's gonna be like the stars of Vegas. I can't wait. Sorry. We're high rollers come see us at the Radisson in our district of not just just off the strip. Just right off the strip right off the strip about mile 30 minutes on either side of the airport. Yeah, they're like, oh, fuck, I'm excited. I'm so yeah, that's something to look forward to. Yeah, and go buy your good fucking so because I have some people have told me that it's amazing. I've been using it tons of different I've been using it at home. It's amazing. It's amazing. And yes, Patrick's hot. Plus, it smells good. And it smells good. And it's simple. And if you go on the website, you can see the process or hear about the process. And it's a really simple process. It's not about the look of the soap. No, it's about the soap. And that's the good fucking part. And that's exactly it. Yeah, it's not the process, not the end result. Yep. And where other soaps are like oh, here's this little dainty soap that you don't want to wash yourself with because it's so pretty. And you're like No, I don't need that. I need some that like smells fucking good. Yeah, so and when you I mean look at Bobby He needs something that smells good. You know you got to build he's got that undercarriage honey this under cheesy. Cheesy. You got to get there and rake it out. Oh. Oh, so come see me in Vegas at room 658 on the Radisson just off the strip. Wow, girl. I wish she was gonna be there. Isn't she?

Jim: 52:02

She's left. Yeah, she hasn't been there in two years like Argentina. Yeah, she's gone. She's not like back. And that's okay. And that's fine. She's, she's drowning in the Pacific somewhere.

Bobby: 52:12

And that's fine and Ubu brandy you Brett Brett? Brett? Brett Brett EBL but I do want to see though just a real quick like side note. Paris Hilton Lindsay Lohan and Britney Spears having their own reality show. Er, no, they should. Oh yeah. No, they're all like coming back to the light and like

Jim: 52:27

Oh girl, they're gonna get burned again. All of them. Watch it watch I'm scared latch if you

Bobby: 52:33

need our advice email us she's not doing so well. gmail.com if you're on our Discord Hello. Hi love you start posting more we do love and also join

Jim: 52:41

Oh my god. The news on Discord right now. I just posted a sexy picture this morning. You we should I will. Okay, actually Well,

Bobby: 52:48

I mean, maybe I will if we get we need a couple people to join and I'll post a sexy pack. Like I had you know when you like Oh, no. When everything like I'm not sure lines up? Yeah, I'm not gonna show you up close. I don't really like how everything's like just lined up like

Jim: 53:02

that's a good outline on the phone. No. So like

Bobby: 53:06

you had all lines up though. And I'm like, yeah.

Jim: 53:10

I was like I had a lady because it was like lay lighting our

Bobby: 53:13

Dick was a perfect, perfect like chunkiness. I'm like okay, so yeah, go on our Discord. We would love to have you there. We would celebrate you well we do we well. There aren't a lot of hot guys on there. There are really utterly there's two of the hottest guys we've ever talked to that regularly go there. And I'll be like, boys, we don't have that many like dick pics. And then

Jim: 53:33

boom,

Bobby: 53:34

deck deck. Deck.

Unknown: 53:37

That fucking deck deck

Bobby: 53:39

but also in Vegas. So six of the ninth please do please come visit you don't have to stay in our Radisson don't say the Radisson you can say wherever you want. You can get up we can go get drinks we go. I mean yeah, we're gonna be like we got more than fun we can get naked we can have sexual healing. We could we could do a sexual. Yeah, she's gonna say ca a chakra challenge. Okay, challenge. Oh. I just went from like G Allen's French to I don't even weird to like Wisconsin. Yeah, real quick. Fargo. All the challenges real.

Jim: 54:08

Okay. Yeah. Subscribe, subscribe and review.

Bobby: 54:11

Five stars. Yeah, we need five stars. And we need you to follow us on Instagram. Because it's fun there. I mean, we haven't been as active. I'm gonna try to figure out how to get back to that. I don't know what you got to do. We just gotta figure it out.

Jim: 54:19

I just got to figure some shit out. Yeah, I don't wanna over post. I don't want to under post so I feel I'm feeling a little insecure. If you tag the podcast, so we will repost it. Oh, yeah. If you want to give me the most ridiculous posts or pictures, even we don't care and we'll talk about it probably will talk about to be honest. Yeah. What else do we have to talk about? Okay,

Bobby: 54:38

that's the thing if you tag us in a picture randomly, we will talk about your picture on

Jim: 54:42

now remember, it has to follow Instagram guidelines. Like if you send a nude we cannot post it right? I mean, I mean, we try and cover it up a little bit.

Bobby: 54:50

I don't know what the rules are. What I'm thinking is like if Lorette blur it. Yeah, I don't know what they alleged PS Yeah, I think that's it just like yeah, share with your life like live your life. and grow. Yes says grow Honey, honey J and we'll see you next week. Bye bye

Jim: 55:09

Oh