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Hello everybody and welcome to another episode of she's not doing so well. I'm Bobby and I'm Jim. We're so glad you came back. I think I'm just going to say that every time I now thank you to all seven listeners. Yeah, today's international podcast stage. You know that. Okay, but who came up with that? I don't fucking know, but congratulations. Thank you for participating. We're both congratulated. Oh, Oh. We have a new setup here. Two PS, pauses or echoes. It's not our fault. It's cause we're hearing our own voices for the first time and it's terrifying. I don't like it. I don't like it either. But apparently this is the way to do it because then you can actually hear like what's happened. So if I'm not away from the mic, then I know to come back. If you couldn't tell, he just went away from the Mike away here. You need to crack your beer honey here. Count County count. Take a set. I'm really excited for this episode because it's going to be like a lot of catching up. We're not going to have a guest this week. We're just going to sort of shoot the shit and lighten things up. Show shot. Um, okay. So wanting to catch, Oh wait. Okay. So the first thing I tell them, I'm like, God, I just had a total blockade. The first thing I want to talk about is, um, the charity thing that I'm doing. I've never done this before. So who the fuck I saw that on the Instagram. So we had the like shirt made and I was like, why don't I just do something good for once? I mean like I don't, I don't know. I feel like I need to give back. Not that I'm like out here balling from the podcast, but I feel like there's something that needs, that's, I dunno. I feel like you just need to sort of give back. Sometimes. I don't ever do it when I see all these people who do it and I'm like this would be a fun way to like get people to buy or merge. That's number one. But then number two, just kidding. It really is for the Trevor project cause there's a lot of inappropriate um, suicides like inappropriate suicide. Stop it. Keep going. I can, I mean is there ever an appropriate soon? No, it's all inappropriate. I think you just got nervous and said, why am I so nervous? I definitely know honey. Cause usually we're drinking more white claw. We're limiting ourselves. I think it's, we're trying to get slimmed up for Montreal. You got to slim the fuck up. But anyway, the charitable donation I want to make, I want to raise$500, which is a lot. And that's all caught. Wow. I'm kind of crazy. We've made 69[inaudible] incidents there. Um, you can donate online there. I have links that I'll keep putting up and I'll keep telling, letting everybody know like how much we've made. That's amazing. Yeah, that's already a lot. That's a good bit of money though. Yeah, I know. Like I know most people wouldn't give that in a one time, but I think we've sold like three or four shirts, but it's, I priced them way cheaper like so, ah, I priced them at 15 bucks. So basically I'm only making like five bucks a shirt is really, it breaks down to some taking that. I'm just taking anything that anybody who buys the don't call me honey bitch. I hear myself. Do you hear like my voice is weird right now? No. Okay. Maybe it's just in my ears. God, fuck. You'd think I'm on the panel right now, but I'm not doing that yet. I haven't got a conclusion. We haven't. They're just like, Oh, don't do jewel. And it's like, bitch, it's all vape THC shit. I need it. I know. But then NBC did their investigation and it seems like it's all the black market and they're catching all these weird, but they're trying to just like take advantage of of yeah. The publicity. Like get it and I get it. Kids shouldn't be vaping. Okay. Don't kit, don't kid, don't kill. Don't kid vapes. Don't vapes. Don't vape kids. Seriously. No, but if you're an adult you can vape. Just don't get it from the street straight. Okay. So anyway, if you want to donate good or good or Instagram and I'll have links up and I'll keep you guys updated. I got a few shirts from there. I love them. Yes, we got some really good shirts too. Yeah, they're literally do like, and we'll keep going. Who knows what's going to come out of today's episode or maybe a new shirt. I hope I'll buy it. I will too. It will be the only ones that buy it. Are you making money when you buy it yourself? It's just going right back into the fun. Um, okay. So I wanted to catch up cause we, it's been two weeks since we were recording. Yeah. We've had a long break, a little hiatus because I think that's why I'm so nervous. Yeah. I've had a little hiatus because Jim had a tribal life. Yeah. Jim was traveling. I was not traveling. I don't know what you were doing. You were blacking out on Sunday and eating taco bell. That was this week. But we need to talk about the weekend before. Oh no. Yeah, that was, I don't think it was that bad. Um, bitch. No. Ah, okay. So here's the story. I guess I want to be really truthful. I wrote a scooter or on accident after I head to, um, what are those things called? A gin and tonics? Top shelf. Hendricks honey. Oh yeah, you're the Taj. No, because when we go to the bar that we go to, they pour it to the rim and it's like stuff from like San Juan or somewhere that I'm not going, you're lucky. It might be from someone's backyard. It could be the same people that are filling up vague carbon cartridge cause they're like, here's a bottle like here, this is[inaudible]. Yeah, they charged me eight, but they get it for two. Yeah, exactly. So I'm like, I'm going to go with Hendricks cause I'd really like Hendrix. Whatever's from the Dominican Republic. Right. The one that's killing everybody. Yeah. I'm like, Oh, let's just like not go with that. But you've got Hendrix, Hendrix, we were watching the game and then we were like, let's, I was texting with Jim. Yeah. I was like, come to dinner please. And Michael was texting with his, the mutual friend between us all. Yeah. Will you too? Well me too. She's my friend too. But like you're an adult. Oh, I didn't say it. I said it. I'm like, yeah. Um, so anyway, we're, we, we decided to meet up with Jim and a couple of friends and so I show up at Jim's house and I'm like, do you have any drinks? And he was like, no. And I'm like, okay. The plan was to scooter to an Indian restaurant right up the street. Right up the street. But it's off the main road. Yeah. Thank God. So there is Jim and I, uh, and riding down the street. You already on a scooter is his borderline to see. It is, it's amazing. It's beautiful. Thank you. Remember I got made fun of, Oh I forgot. So then I was really conscious, self conscious. I was like, God, I'm this fat guy, break it. But I was like, I've had two cocktails, I'm fine. Like I'm not going to break it. I mean I just got to Sui anyway. It was just a little bit across the road. It's fine. It was a two laner. I mean it's fine. So we got to the Indian restaurant, right? Yeah. And everything seems fine. And this Indian restaurant only serves giant beers. I was like[inaudible] they're 22 ounces, but they feel like 40 but they drink like 12 well at least for me in that case, no, I knew about after halfway through the first one I looked over at you and good pontificating and that's a big word. Sorry. Yeah, I was like, what does that, is that just like you were like, you know, talking and explaining things? Shouting. Yeah. I mean, I was like, I was feeling, I groping. Oh yeah. I mean there was some hot ones in the group that I was like, Oh, Oh hello, Oh hello. And then I was like kind of out a gap. But as we kept going, things got more out of control. More out of control. And you were getting some hard looks. I was getting some hard looks and I was going to the bathroom like 45 times. I think everybody's like God. And I'm like, Oh I was like faking what I checked a couple of times. I know you did cause I was like, where am I? Just kidding. I was fine. You are fine. I just want to make sure you weren't throwing up. Yeah, no, I was fine that we weren't, I felt great every time you're washing your hands right? Cause I'm cleanli or hygienic. Oh now you're using the big words. Yeah, I'm gonna set, I'm hyper allergenic. I don't even know if I know hypo allergenic. Like my allergenic acumen soap. Yeah, I'm just soft on your skin, but you're not. But I'm not. So we go back to the table and, and so I've had two of these big ass beers and giant beers. Jim goes, Jim goes, Oh, are you going to have another one? I'm like, yeah, I'll just get a smaller one. Like I'll just get like a bud light. So I ask our waitress and she's already not impressed already. We already can't feel annoyed. So I'm like, we had a big group and she could tell you were like enjoying your life. I was living my best life, but nobody else was on my level. No, that's the truth. Everybody else was like kind of busy. So I'm like, Oh, I'll have a bud light. And she walks away and takes up 10 to 15 minutes long ass time and I'd go, hi. And she goes, Oh, sorry, there's no bud light. I go, okay, well it was going to leave. Just gonna leave. I go, Oh, I'll have Miller. So she looked at me like, Oh really? Whose here with him? Who's responsible for him? I heard it go to the bar and just say, Miller. Yeah, I'm watching her like a hug. I'm like, I need that Miller bag trying to leave and I need this last beer cause why? I don't know. So needed it somehow we got into a conversation. Oh first of all so you can tell the story about what I said cause okay. So this all happens and I forget basically from the Miller on, but there was a couple of incidents that happen yeah that were kind of inappropriate. Totally inappropriate. Like actually not like the suicides but like actually appropriate. So tell the story. So you were like, you turned to me and you're like all excited cause you're like across this across the table from your partner. And I'm like, okay, here we go. Like what are you going to tell me? Like something very serious. I look to you. I was like, Barry tell you something. I mean I panicked. So I was like, did he tell me and I already forgot. He's like, so we're going to go to Hawaii. And I was like, Oh this has to be like for a wedding. And you were like, and we're going to get married there. And I was like, I knew it. And I look up at your partner and he's like[inaudible] deer in the headlights. He goes, Hm, no we're not. And you were like, no one can get this fat ass to marry. No one, no hot ass. And I was like, wait, why? I said this guy here won't marry my fat ass. I think I've had it. Yes. I was like so lost. I didn't even know. I was saying they're still in shock from him being like, no we're not. And I'm like, and you weren't joking cause you were being serious. I was like, Oh no, I'm witnessing a break up. And then like he's like, no or not and you're like at least the knee, take the knees, take the need. Tim Tebow. And I was like in his face is like maybe I was like, Oh I was having a photo boy and I was thinking about, Oh you went to the bathroom again? Which, okay, I want to clarify though, after this conversation that we had, cause I was like, you know what, I'm putting a lot of pressure on a ring and a marriage, but really I'm already just a ring. I don't even fucking want it though. Really, truly. I truly don't. I think you do. No, I really don't. I think you need a little more confirmation. I mean, the hot tub in a house is here for, I mean we just got to offer the house ass together. Yeah, that's good. I mean that's signing documents like we're all over. So I mean, but you could leave at any minute. You can leave on even in a marriage. Yeah, that's true. And he was like, I've never been. Oh my God, I have to be married. And so I think you would like it though. Like we talked about it when you're blacked out at an Indian restaurant and you're like, imagining let's get married in Hawaii while Jim's like, do you like me Tiffany's for carrot or whatever. I mean both carrots are, Oh, I don't even know if this adds up to any of your, like I got this from Tiffany's. I'm like, I want a ring, but I really don't. You need a ring. I really don't know if I do. Well I'm just going to pressure you into it either way. So I think, I mean, but that's a good point is I think that there's outside influence influence and it makes me like get angry and sad when I'm drunk. But really we had to talk after I said I'm sorry I didn't realize that I caused a scene. I didn't realize I asked you to marry me and you said no and you said no. Like what really equipment. We've talked about this open like we are going to get married. It's just not going to be a thing. And me saying we're going to go to Hawaii and that's why he's like, ah no. Cause it's never been in the cards to even extravagant. It's like courthouse. That's what's happening for the legal reasons alone. And you're going to be spending the rest of your lives together. Like, why don't you have some legal protections so something happens to you, you can step in and manage it. Correct. And because right now your family will well and that will be fine. In your case it'll put it, what about his, if he's in a coma in the hospital, do you want his mom doing it? Yeah, I would like to be Elise. Yeah. Oh hard ways. Yeah. So that time you had to think about that. Right. And that's the things that I think that, and if you're gonna do it, get a ring. So there's so there you go. Circle back and do it. Let's do it honey. I got a hot tub. I don't need a rain. Not yet. Not yet. But you need to go to Hawaii and get married. It's a good idea. I think it's a good idea. And maybe it's something that, and then I had it in the cards. It could be. It is. It's in the cards. But anyway, so then I find out from fucking gym that we were talking about whale tails. Yeah. I don't know how, I don't even know how that came. Cause you are feeling okay, you are like buzz, but you were nowhere near here. Oh no. Like I mean I had a giant beer, I had one, which is a Nazi. You were a funny tipsy. Yeah. You're like a fun tipsy. Like I'm, you know, not doing anything crazy tonight. Trying to reel you in. Yeah. So then we started drawing like w I didn't even know what a whale till one person sitting next to me had no idea what a whale two was. And I'm like, how's that possible? So I'll tell, you know, it's like when the thong cups up above the pant line and it looks like a whale tail. So or G string even. I don't even know if this would be a thought. I don't know what the requirements are for whale tail, but I drew it on the table because it was a paper table paper. I am sorry. So then I look over and Bobby is drawing a Wiener, not a hot dog. Fully erect or direct winter with balls with hairy. Yeah. Like I was like go, I was like fucking Picasso. Like beginner. Yeah. At dinner. And that's when we got up and left and that's when I didn't realize like then you sort of pulled in for it and then, Oh, those are like the after dinner, like treat, it's not a tree seeds and it tastes like outlet. Sounds like things are anise I think. How do you spell that and ISE. Oh, I though it was made in us anus seeds. That's like the salad. I'll go get somebody. I can have seeds. So I put them in my mouth and he was like fucking black liquor, which I'm not knocking it, but I like New York. I can tell. Just give me like refreshing man button. The shells of those seeds don't go down well like they turn into a mush him, it's like pure fiber. It's like bent fiber in a desert. It was bad. Yeah, but I mean I tried it. I'm happy about that. I was proud of you and then you throw them in my face and then I throw them in your face. I think I got in my eye. But anyway, that was because I wanted to pretend like it was the end of the wedding and like you were coming out of that was the end of the night. It's definitely, I mean cause then I was like, next thing I know you got in a van. Yeah, we were going, you got in your Uber van? Well also my partner was staying like semi sober just because like it's been true. I mean like a rough, yeah, just like stay and I'm like, I'm just gonna fucking blackout per usual. No, you actually came out. Let me tell you what really happened. You don't remember this. You came out and you're like, Oh, I think we should just scooter home. Stop it. He goes, he's like, no, that's way too far. And you're like, no, we just take this street all the way past that high street. Are you? Then we turn right and we're there. I was like, Oh my God. It's like at least six miles away. He would have listened to me. That would have been bad. Yeah. That would have been God VN wow. Yeah. Sui soul over it. Yeah. Sui would have been happening cause I'd be like, and I fucking care. I probably tried to go through alleys. Fuck you. He had his own and so that was that weekend. So fast forward and gem. You left town and you went to piece out his outcome scout went down to Florida. Beautiful beaches. It's either old people or meth addicts. How that, I know when you go around most of Florida, you're like, yikes. You're like, Oh, let's stop at that guy's[inaudible]. Oh no, let's, no, no, no, no, no, no. You don't have enough tie dye shirts out. God literally cigarette sale for 40 like once in Fort cartons. It's like Misty Slims, menthol, menthol, Memphis, the slim one. Hundreds you spend to know a lot about cigarettes. I used to smoke Marlboro menthol, ultra light one hundreds[inaudible] 107 and Marvel that size. I was straight. Oh, that's right. Really? I'm like, um, where's my ultra light on hundreds. Yeah, like some cowboy walks and he's like Marlboro red. You're like, ah, I'll try. Then menthols I need, Oh, then I want, can I get the pink lighter? Yeah, I'm going to go a little fem tonight and get a pink lighter, but I'm straight. God. Yeah. So, but it was a much needed break except we didn't get to record and I was upset. Yeah. Did you, anything crazy happened in Florida or was it just like a pretty run of the mill kind of a, it was okay. I mean[inaudible] um, I went down with my partner and his parents came. My parents were there. Oh, that's nice. Adorable. They were having a blast. Our parents had never met each other. Oh, but my mom were not at the wedding point then. No. Well, my mom lives in Atlanta though. Oh yeah. That's hard. Yeah. Well, but that's nice. Yeah. It's glad that they got to the, I'm glad they got to hang out for all that time. Yeah. We, you have to get ready for the wedding next September. Oh my God. It's coming up. I bet her fear away. I bet her fucking Vienna. And by that I mean you'll be lucky if you get an invite. I'll be like, put him in the back and don't give him a pen. He'll draw a Dick on the table. This is, she's not doing so with Bobby and that's it. Crickets play the crickets. No. Yeah, with Bobby and that's it. Cause there's no more fucking buds. The buds. That guy. No, I don't actually don't want to be in the wedding. I don't even want to have a wedding. I just want to like not throw. Like I just, I'm terrified. I don't want to have the event, so we're just like probably going to Harvard. Going to be a fucking nightmare. I know. You think[inaudible] you're gonna have to call me like Jim. Listen to me. A Miller light. Yeah. I don't know. White claw. White claw. I'm gonna bring you a white claw and a Kalama pit. I'm just kidding. I don't know. Maybe I will like these together. I'll be fine. Mix these together. You go to sleep right away. It's like, it's a redneck cocktail. You'll be fine. I probably, you're like, get here. It's from the local bar. I make some tequila and white castle, but it's going to taste fine. It'll all be over and then three hours it wears off. It'll be black out until you're done. You're like writing speeches. You're like, I'm like, Oh, you know for sure the maid of honor making a speech, I'm going to give a speech. Is your maid of honor going to be a family member? Uh, I think it, yeah, it should be. It should be. Well, I don't even know if I want to have, I think I just want to have like a team next to me. Where's the little like ding, ding, ding. Yeah. Kiss the brightness. Well, actually say something. Think of. So when we were on vacation, we went into this like kind of trashy little um,[inaudible] gift shop area and one of one of the stores is a perfume store. So I'm, my fiance goes in and the lady there selling them perfumes like, Oh, I've got the perfect one. Oh the ladies love it here. Come test it. And he like, she grabbed his arm and like pulls it towards her, starts spraying just different colognes on his arm and he's like, nothing. This is not for me. Yeah, the ladies love it. The ladies lives. I'm literally standing right next to him. I was just staring at her like, okay, what about the gentleman? I should've said something, but I just turned around because I didn't want her to spray my arm. You shouldn't be like, it's gross. Yeah. I'm like, no, no sec. It's not for me. It's not for me. And I'm her[inaudible] I am she and she is me and they are them. Oh God. Oh, Oh, Oh sorry. Is that what I'm hearing some papers. It's really weird cause I feel like I'm, my senses are off with this headphone situation but this is how they do it. Well so what did you do yesterday exactly? Because you like when I texted you when I was on the plane back, you like didn't respond for many hours and then I was genuinely concerned about the taco bell killed you. I'm really sorry. I'm really not that big of a draw. Oh wait. So this, okay, this is the next the following weekend. Listen, have great weekend, have a lot of calm situations. But then we go to gay kickball where I don't play, I drink and watch or like the mom sharing bear to watch us again. I'm like, hi guys, I am. I'm like, Oh, hi. And they're like, Oh Hey. The other teams are like, Oh, is that their mascot? That's our Masco bell. I'm like, yes, no, I saw you walk up. And I'm like, I'm like nervous. I get nervous. Oh like duh. Well I mean it's like walking into a gay bar with a[inaudible] pot, a list gaze. They're a listy but they're also, but they're really nice. I'll be honest with you. You know Piper a list. They are, you see them at like, yes, they're a list. I agree. I don't want you to get to their heads, but I mean cause I'm an a plus list, but plus plus plus I'm a super plus big and tall and ultra light 100 menthol. I'm ultra heavy. Um, so we get there and I'm like, hi guys. Like I try to be very, yeah, I used to be very quiet with people and I'd be like, Oh. And I'd probably like look away, fold your lawn chair and start chugging beer and now I'm like, Hey are you, I'm like, I waved to them though now I'm like, Hey guys, how are you? Like before I'd be like, cause I have friends on the team so I go see them and then we get like hang out after and have some white claw at the field or so. But we were like, so when I walked up though, you know there's the A-listers are walking off the field and I was like, hi guys. Like just trying to be wow. I feel like the podcast is really know couple months like no, like you wouldn't know. And I feel like the podcast is really making me more cause I am, I am outgoing, like I'm not definitely, I'm gonna fucking twist said I'll go into a room and I can own the fucking room. It's when I'm comfortable to own the room though and I'm usually not comfortable until it's over until like the end of the night. I'm like, yeah, they're like, God you're so funny. We got to go to bed. I'm like, Oh, okay, bye. Oh, but usually it takes me like a least an hour or so when I'm like, say at a wedding when we were looking at the full blackout. Yeah. And then all of a sudden I'm like, I'm the fun guy. And they're like, let's, let's be friends on fee. I have so many Facebook friends that I met one

time. Uh, I know I haven't been on Facebook and like six or seven[inaudible] and I'm not going back. It's been a happy seven years without it. I don't really go on it. That's the thing. I really don't, you don't need, I just add people. And I'm like, I remember when it first went out, people were like, well, how will I invite you to my events? I was like, send me a text if you really care. And if you don't, then I don't care either and I won't come. Right. I mean, but I mean, you know, and it's like, well, how do you stay connected with that person you never talked to in high school? Right. And that's the thing. It's like, great, grandma wants to send you messages. I'm just like, thanks, I'll pass. I don't need a great aunt looking at me and it's so political now. And I'm like, right, I don't want to know who, yeah, my grandma only bothering her news through her Facebook feed. So after the election it really bothered me. And that's actually when I stopped going. The Russians just bought ads. They were like, wait, Facebook. Oh, but then I have people that I know that were like pro. Oh, don't say it. Just don't even, I don't even want to say I didn't want to talk louder. I can't, he's just too much. But so anyway, so we go do the F the kickball. We afterwards we watch another game and have some drinks and then me and me and my partner Michael decided to go to the bear bar. No. Yeah. And I had two huge seltzers from a local company. Oh, cute. Yeah, it wasn't boxer, but, okay. So at this point I'm pretty much in a full of abandoned the sponsor on accident. Well, they're running out member. Yeah. You had to try to try new things. I'm trying to explore your rationing. So we go there for no reason at all. Why does that say we're like the afternoon? We're having a really good day. That's the thing. We were having so much fun. So we did that. We were just talking and then, then we were talking about dinner and it looked like it was gonna rain. So our fat asses, we're like, well we can't grill steaks like we thought so. Well that is what is going to taco bell steak dinner to taco bell real quick. Yup. So we grab taco bell. I'm not even going to tell you how it was 21 I found out, I thought it was 30, but it was a lot of dollar minuet. I mean it was like a huge bag and it was heavy on, I haven't been there and like almost ever, but the two times I had been there I thought everything was so cheap. It is. I was like, wait, I know. It's like, how are you making money go for 89 cents? Right? So how did you spend$21? Well, some of those specialty talk, like I got a um, cheesy gordita crunch. That's how I love that. When I'm fucking drunk, I need to learn the lingo, chill. And I'm like, yeah, I dunno. I'm picturing like a little dog. Me too. Like why is that? Yeah, so we do the talk about, we come home, I decided to eat it all, not all of it when I was on the plane. So this is what you're in the plant. I'm like, ah, we just got to taco bell, blah blah, blah. I was like, I'm going to just sit on the couch for a second. This is like six o'clock 6:00 PM on a 6:00 PM and the next thing I know I'm waking up at nine o'clock Oh work night. God and I don't sleep well as it is lately, so it's like, okay, great. So then I get,

I get a text from Jan honey. I was like, honey, I'm like, Oh, I'm here honey. I was like, honey are, yeah. And I was like, why is there so many hours? There was like, huh? He just really doesn't want to tell. You are hoping that the minute you landed on that plane and you had all these texts from me, like girl, you'll never believe, Oh honey, please. I had messaging on a plane. Southwest has free messaging. Yeah, and it's free. Well, I dropped all in for that. I dropped off the fucking map. I knew I was like, something's wrong. Yeah. You're like, ah. So yeah, so after that I did okay. I took my melatonin and passed out, put those night guards at that night garden that I'm about to choke it. Actually last night, no, last night I took it out in the middle of the night and put it on the nightstand. I don't remember doing that. And then I woke up at like four and I was like, something's not right. And I was like, Oh my night guard. It's a mess. It's a mess. If there was a camera on me at night, Oh my God. It would be the worst. The best words without knowing it. Like what was I, how was having bizarre bodies like, Oh hell no. You'll get rejected. I don't want to be APNIC. Yeah, I'm rejecting your mouth guard. So yeah. Oh well you had a good day. Yeah, I did. All right. I did. I ran, I ran out. Right. It's like I'm miss Tennessee and like if I could make the world better by changing one thing, I would get rid of, you know, crying and shit. Yeah. Spaghetti. All those things. Yeah. Yeah. What's the next thing on the goddamn list? Um, Oh I want to talk about, I want to do like a little social media minute. Okay. Ding dah dah, dah. Then they will have a theme song, but I want to talk, cause there's a lot of really funny people on social media and I feel like I didn't know about a lot of these people. Yeah. So like you told me about sweaty Puffin. He's hysterical. He's got like an eight pack. I don't, yeah, it almost looks fake. It does. I know. Sorry. Slutty. But it does. I'm just going to tell you the way you drove it. Yeah. Cause what you drink honey. Oh. And he's like, I'm going to B's and I'm drinking champagne and eating all day. And he's like, here's my eight pack. I'm like drank around the world and Epcot. Oh, we went to Disney world and got kicked out of Disney world with his family. But I mean, yeah, it's always eating too, I think. And then we have Graham Vanderbelt built built belt. I hope I am weird built. Yeah. Built, built honey honey. Last night she had stickers on her nips. I loved her. I know we're going to, we who soon we're going to we who's we? Who? Honey, I'm going to have the lingo. We want to Nikki's, we are going to make the gun him on the first one. Mickey Mondays. They're probably like, we're not there. We're like, no, you're going to be there bitch. You have to be there. So, but I want to talk about Tammy. Okay. Who is Tammy? Tammy's really? Chelsea Lynn. Okay. So if you look up Chelsea Lynn on Instagram, Chelsea, the girl's name and she does all these funny videos, but she has a character called Tammy. I'm crying. So she does this like weird head shake and then she's Tammy

all of a sudden. And there was a meme a couple of years ago where she asked somebody for a cigarette and it was like definitely a setup, but he's like, Hey, you got a cigarette? And the person goes, no. And she goes, fuck off. That was like the big news forever. So that's the thing. That's what got her onto the map. And I thought, Oh my God, I believed it so much. It was a real person. So now, okay, so now she goes around with all her millions of listeners and followers and does videos in the car eating with random people. Um, and she's funny as shit. I'm going to watch it follow. I wanted to give everybody that little heads up. Follow Chelsea Lynn. Oh, she's hysterical. So Chelsea Lynn is her handle, but she's Tammy, Tammy's a character, which she also has like things that she does as herself, not so Tammy's, she'll talk, talk this. She's like, Oh my pussy. Look, she's very like vulgar. And she'll go, okay, now what we're going to do here, I'll cry. It's funny as shit. It's funny. So you just check her out. That's, I just want to say that. Plus I want to tag her in this episode. All right. Okay. So also moving forward, moving, moving along on the program. We had some questions that I asked people for questions. Yeah. Legit ones to, wow. You didn't type them. No, cause sometimes I send some in, right. Whenever you're like, ask me anything. I'm like, um, you're like, what size are you? How big is your deck? I'm downstairs. I'm like, Oh, Jim, come upstairs, Jim. We have to jam. We got to record. Quit fucking around in the kitchen. God. And there's brownies in the kitchen right now. Sorry. Oh, we're on a diet. So we'll, this brings up the first question from Aaron in Chicago and he's hot as fuck. Sorry Aaron. I know you're listening, but he is hot. He's the winner of the first contest. Oh, he was, he didn't get his shirt though. So I don't really know why the mail system. I dunno. Let's blame them. Yeah, we'll blame him. But his question was, have we thought about doing a remote recording in another city? Well, that's funny. He asked money. You ask Aaron. Hmm. Guess where we're going? Where we've already set up Montreal. Oh, that's right. I was like, what are we going to Hawaii to get married? We're going to Hawaii to get[inaudible] and straight in interview people. My Whoa, Whoa, Whoa. The Huma, Huma NewCo[inaudible]. Oh my God. Stay fat. Oh, okay. Thank you. I'm well versed. I thought you just went full racist. I was like, I have no idea. No, I'm part Hawaiian. Oh, I love it there. Anyway. So what are we doing? When are we going? We're going to Montreal in like three weeks I think. Yeah. Yep. Just about, yeah, just about three weeks. And what I want to do is meet some local Montreal people and I don't, I haven't been able to connect really. So shocker. Nobody's returning my calls or my emails your size up here. I'm like, Oh God, I'm really scared of that. I think Canada Canadian, I almost say the Canadia people, um, on such as such as moms and such. No, I think that they um, they like I'm size a little bit

cause they're like burly. Yeah. But they also like them skinny and like Fred lumberjack. Yeah. So I'm just going there as myself. Fuck them. I don't care if you don't like me. It's a national conundrum. No, you're gonna fit in. Totally. I'm here gonna fit in, but we're going to get our, we have an Airbnb above the gay bar, right, so we're going to, I didn't realize it was right. It was like, well it's in the gay village and it's like near all the clubs. I didn't know it was above the club. I'm kind of where I, me too. It's actually like right above. It's actually like next to it and above it, but one address. Oh my God. We're going to go to like look down and see like, Oh yeah. Oh this is all palatable frost say all all week and make a, I'm going to make us shirts that say like, mine's going to be like thick and juicy. Yours is going to say I'm stable or what's dirty? Starting to just be Costo. We'll make Michael the one. We're going to find that one. We have to think of his[inaudible]. Oh, you've been practicing your French. So anyway, if you're listening and you're from France or not from Montreal, he's like, where you're from France, where are we going to dance? But we're trying to find people to interview Dre y'all. So let's, if you are France, if you're[inaudible] we will still live in France. You been work bitch. You went to party in France. Yeah. That's like my motivation for like a week when I work out then I'm like no, I don't want to party. I don't want a Maserati. Fuck it. I don't want them to Roddy. I don't want a hot body. I'm done. I'm tired. I went to sleep and a fucking six pack of beer. Um, and the brownies. Um, so anyway, so if you know anybody in Montreal shooter semesters on message on Instagram or we want to just get ahold of us. Yeah. Cause we really want to connect. Don't get a hold of eyes. We'll get ahold of you cause we're going to be going to all the bars, all of them. It's going to be with our street equipment, street straight equipment. I'm like with our straight equipment. With our straight tourney straight. We're going to put our little wand on you and your straight bitch just for the night. You want a straight life, you better work bitch. Oh wow. You should see Jim right now. He's doing like the Vogue or whatever that stuff they do on pose pose. Um, okay. So we had another question and this is actually from somebody on another podcast. His name is Michael[inaudible] and it's called if we're being honest, that's their podcast. And I like that. They're so funny. They, it's not anywhere in our genre at all. I mean, he's gay, I think. No, he's gay. He's cute as fuck. He's so cute. He's very, like he, they, they both speak very clear. Um, but their, what is their podcast is about the like take if I'm being honest. Yeah. Okay. Or if we're being honest. Yeah. If we're being honest. Okay. So I followed them and they're really, they're, they're like newer like us. Um, but they do stuff like they watch Bravo shows and they like recap it and they recap like a lot of like the bands and they've gotten a big following. So far. It's funny he asked the question to

us though. Okay. I'm gonna we're gonna have to answer it in an interesting way. He asked why we wanted to start a podcast, which we answered in the first episode. Wow. But I want to recap that really quick. Oh, because, Oh no, no, it's good. Okay. I'm getting nervous. Getting serious. I just keep hearing my own voice. I don't want to go to Hawaii. Well, you know, I was like, how serious are you getting? Oh, like, I mean, we know that I started it because I wanted to like make a difference and I wanted to like step out of my own box and get rid of, get out of your comfort zone and so update. It's working. Hence the, the, the kickball story. So I kind of wanted to like answer that anyway. Yeah. But I don't know if you, yours has changed at all. I mean, you were just, I don't even remember when you're just riding my coattails, bitch. I'm just like being dragged to low. You're not, you're really contributing a lot. And actually it's weird. I get along. Not weird, but I get a lot of people like I love gym. Really like the mystery cause you're like Wilson or home improvement. You're like a big part of it. But yet why would he really have a new hat to wear a bony bear hat so I can corner that. And the next picture, God, I can't wait. We'll be there in a week, one week. Um, so yeah, so that's my, I don't know, I S I'm still doing it because I think I'm learning a lot. Like the people we've talked to, I'm just sitting here like, Oh like as you probably heard last week, I really did not know anything about parents. Right? Like at all at all. I thought I did. Didn't know. Yeah. So like every week I'm like, well what can we talk about next? Who can we talk to next? Reach out to, who can we connect with? And so now I'm like, this is in such a fun ride. I'm learning a lot and you're a good host because you do all the work. And I just get to show up. I'm like, come over now. And I have the Mike fine headphones now. What a Miller light out and I'll be there. I have to designed another car. If you don't have a white claw, have a Miller light. Fine. Yeah. Today he opened the fridge and goes, Oh, this selection is limited. I'm like, yeah, we're done. A Miller light. Cause I'm a drunk. Yeah. As, as I heard about yesterday. Okay, so we have another question. I don't know who. Oh, what's our favorite flavor of white claw? Oh God. Mango. I have to go with mango. Second place. Very close. Second raspberry. I love her. I like raspberry too. Which one do I hate? I don't really hate any of them, but I let him, sorry. Grapefruit. Oh, I like grapefruit. I think wine for me is the one I'm not liking. Yeah, because it's too plain. Black cherry is just there. Yeah. It's almost like NyQuil, like it's like a hint of NyQuil. I like grapefruit. Wow. I'm in shock. I don't know anyone else who likes it. I do. I'm the only one. Then people just have to agree to disagree. Keeping them in business clearly that you're the only reason they make that flavor. And then, um, are you going to tell your coming out stories? Oh, we are. Okay. We are, it'll be next episode. We're going to compile it together. We already had um, one of Jim's representatives, the representatives who came from the same mother, same mother. Um, tell the story of coming out and we're going to rerecord the opening though because I wanna play those from my friend Courtney and your sister. But I want to be current, if that makes sense. I feel like being current is just a good thing. Like I don't like pre-recording cause then I'm like, we didn't tell this or that so, but you'll get that in not this week but next week. Yes. So I write a[inaudible] people want to know. It's interesting. It is interesting. They're good story are good. They're good. They're always good to hear. Which now brings us to the part of the program where we talk about what are we talking about? Age[inaudible]

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the gay voice. Wow. Or just typing in vocals. Voice, voice. Like the show. Well, this ties into like member, I was like, wow, I'm scared of my own voice. And we were both talking about our own voice and so we were like, let's talk about that. Let's talk about why are we afraid of our voice and why? What is a gay voice? So I was like Googling gay voice and I'm like, you sound gay. Right before I was even like when I was 12 and I'm like, what's that mean? So it makes me wonder if there is something out. Yeah. Like connected when we're born like, Oh, you know, I don't know because I don't feel like I got, it's like a sassy thing too. Yeah. I don't know. It's a really weird concept to be honest with you. Cause I always try to avoid sounding gay, like my work voice. Oh God. What is your work voice? I'm trying to picture, I got to like clear my throat. So like I'm calling in and you're like, so I got tinted up. This is Bobby. How can I help you? Um, hi. I wanted to buy a sprinkler. Alright. Uh, what, what kind of strong colors are you looking for? Slurred. And I'm scared no by I get really, I'm like, okay, cool. So we'll get you on the schedule for that. And isn't that weird? Wow. It's bizarre. I'm supposed to be turned on. No, it just sounds annoying to me because it's like you don't even hear any expression. It's like monotone. Cause if I go up in my, then I can't be too excited because then they're like, wow, you really want to hire you gay? Parang CLA. Oh my God, we'll totes get that out to you. A SOP. We will put you on the sketch. We'll put you on the sketch. A thought batch. Stop buying. No, I'm like, Hey, that's weird. Yeah. Oh we'll get that to you as soon as you can. I'll get, I'll give you a call. It's that fake. That's not bad. Different mean I'm not used to that. I mean I'll, I'll bring it down to like this level right here. Like I'll talk like this, but I'm never like, Oh honey, we'll get that right to you. What's up? Darlin Hey darlin. Yeah, no, it's not like that. No, but there are people that know that I'm gay in the industry. What industry is that? I'm in fire sprinklers. That's it's hot. I'm a firefighter that sits behind a desk though, basically. Essentially. I mean, don't call on you in an emergency. No, don't my sprinkles. You'll be like, hello, what's the problem? Hello? What's the problem? I'll get dispatch as soon as possible. They're like, why are you choking? Do you have an orange in your throat? Like what's happening? Everything's great. Cookie monster cookies. Oh wow. But anyway, so that's my like work. So one of, one of my, what happens is I have a customer that knows I'm gay and she'll be like, it's a girl shocker. It's a woman that knows I'm gay. Wow. So she'll be like, Hey, how are you? I'll be like, Hey girl. Like I'll just like, it's like funny, like a joke. So I can be like myself with her. She's like, how's your partner? And like, it's really nice though to be in a work atmosphere, but we just, we do have our own lingo. It's just like a dialect. I think it's a dialect. Yeah. And actually when we're around each other and we're comfortable, I feel like we switch, we code switch into a different way of talking and it's fun, but it's not something you're like, you learn. It's just kinda happens. It's bizarre. I've learned a lot of these phrases. Same, but it's like, cause I never heard of them before. Like hunting. Oh hunt. He had no idea what that, yeah. Or just saying honey or calling people darling or calling. I've never heard anyone in my family or friends growing up that, yeah, no. Like yes. Batch. I never had no one ever. I don't think anybody's dad was like, yes, bitch, get in the van, get me a bud light batch, batch, get me up. No one's, you know dad. Oh daddy. Oh wow. I'm just like imagining back to those days, but when I see somebody else's dad and they're like, get me a beer, you're like, I'll get you a beer and them, Whoa. Anyway. Yeah, I'm the mat. No, not at all. We were thinking that way. But yeah, so it's almost, I've written an article and it said, it's like kind of how like bros talk. Oh God, you know, they're like, yo dude, what's up? You don't learn to talk like that now it's your friend group. It's your culture. It's your who you're comfortable with. So that's why you talk like that. Just like, I mean, most people don't talk like they do at home. Like I do at work. Exactly. Like everybody has their, like the word voice slash attitude and try not to cuss at work. Yeah. I say fuck a lot still. Really? And I have a coworker that has Hey talks like swear to God. I'm like, what? Bobby? Sounds like a nervous dog all the time. All the time. Yeah. And I'm like, I'm sorry. Pfeifle can you speak up? Um,[inaudible] what have meters? No, you don't. It's so bizarre. I'm like, okay, speak up because I can't hear you. Like

I'll say like the fuck word. I'll be like, Oh, fucking assholes. And I'll look over her and she's like crying. That wasn't very nice. And I'm like, Oh God. And if I could tell you her name, Bonnie, I'm chatting you and Oh my God, she has to page people across over the Intercom and I'm like, nobody can hear you coming later. You're like, what? Like you're not even doing your job. It's awful. But she's sweet. But that's my point is she's like very sweet and I'm like, but when she get fucking, she gets home, she's like, Oh, she's the one that told me I can't be anybody up in the yard. When we had people like walking in their yard and I was like, I'll go out there and beat their fucking ass. And she's like, no. And I was like, why? She goes, wow, if something happens to them and they die outside, it's your fault. I'm was like, I think, I think she used to be like wow, work and she sounds like a counselor. No, I think she breath in. Yeah,

down call. We should do the whole episode West spring. It's like those videos where everyone's like, you know, rubbing their nipples.[inaudible] that's suffering nasty. But there's like videos like passing that bar Lisa, where it's like great, like things crumpling together and people whispering.

It's like an entire world of people who love that. I really don't know. When you're talking about, you don't know about this? No. Oh, it's like a S M R. Oh, let me just look it up. It's like a real thing where people like that

you liked the way my voice sounds like. You want me to whisper? Everything was I'd like really?

Oh yeah. He just said is that he's in shock. Oh my God. My shelf on Bush. Let me on my head. We have to, I'm sorry that this is happening, but like a tangent, but it's called autonomous sensory Meridian response. No, it's a whole thing. Is there like an example? Like can we look on the video into the bike? Yes. Like a peep out of mind. I hear they get like

they get things and then they like play and play the clothes, the sounds of things like rubbing together. Yeah. Honey, it's a real rewarding. Don't call me honey. Okay. Let's see. Let's see if I can find one. Oh, wow. I mean, this is crazy that you've never heard of it. No, there's literally video. Okay,

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Oh, she has sponsors. She's a fucking spaz. Got a spot. Okay, I see on sir. I can't play this. I'm going to start my own video series. Audible. That's a I, I subscribed on Amazon. I get a credit every month. Same book. Same. I'm getting JVMs book.

Oh, that's snacks. Love him. I do to love them. No, it's him. He goes by him. Okay. Yup. Now she's rubbing like

Palm Palm is on her cheek. I mean, this is real. She goes, wow. She looks like a crazy bitch too. Sorry. I think most of them are. She's like smiling Grapey Lee. I mean, I think I can't wait. She likes this way too much, but apparently they have a response that would do it. That would do it for all our ass and Mark people out there. Listen to that. To hear that. No, that will do. I'm Aly, I'm following this. I mean, I'm more jealous. Like it's weird, but I want that response cause they love it. I mean they're there. They are. So she buys like a million followers. Yup. And she's got audible books probably

that they were just, Oh, I'm so getting into this. I'm gonna start my own fucking series. Fuck it. You could do it. I'm going to rub weird objects and my cleavage. Oh my God. No, I'm not. This is so you got to make that a video blog and not just a soundbar. I'm going to rub this cucumber on my Danny.

No, I bought it. I cannot believe this. If you've heard of this, we need you to call in even though nobody calls our fucking line. I would love for you guys to call in two months. We'll talk about someone calling it something. Say something.

I'm not so into this whispering thing out. I don't even remember. We were okay. We were talking about that's kind of vocals, that speech he's were talking about being, you're still the beach. You sound more gay when you want. Smart. You totally sound guy. So did you ever cover your voice up?

Oh, all the time by just not talking. I covered up by discover up by going deep and yeah, we'll get you go honey. How are you? Quiet? Cause I feel like you're the type that um, Oh Michael[inaudible] shade shade. Like that word. I didn't know about that word time Matt

the gaze. But no, no, no shade honey. I guess I'm not allowed to be quiet, but yeah, I think I just wouldn't talk. It's just weird that we can still be outed for being gay though. Like yeah,

I'm so blowing into things is also an ASM are thing that's that's not, it don't far. That's not it. Uh, it probably, it probably is, but that's not it for me.

Do you want to hear me release some guys that's so gross. Little squeaky. That was really tight. That's the Indian from two weeks ago. The whale tail. Oh my God, this is so gone off track. But this is what I do

for this episode. Honestly I did because we needed to just like lighten it up. I know we've gotten, we went really into the deep end of serious topics we did and we're going to keep doing that. Like I said that want to leave me in and

out, in and out. We've been in and out, in and out, in and out edit. So we really, we had a subject for today. We were talking about speech. I mean that was like the main thing we want to kind of talk about. We also just wanted to sort of update and yeah, that kind of a thing for this episode. I don't know. Is there anything else you want to talk about? Do you think we cleared the speech thing up? No. No we didn't. We had to go back into that. Okay. So tell us about it. Cause you're the one that was like I can talk about speech all day, honey. Oh I I I don't remember saying that. Don't call me any bitch. I have a text. But did I say that? Yeah. You're like, Oh honey, I can talk about it all day. I was exaggerating obviously don't listen to what I say. Yeah. Cause you just talked about how you were unmute for five years. I was kind of like, I just didn't want to talk because I thought, because after people, you know when you're in eighth grade and not even a threat, I think it was in fifth grade. I know. Yes, it was worth grade the first time we were like, yeah, we're going to be a curtain designer on the bus. And I was like, what is a curtain designer? And then you know, I'm like, what's going on? Like I don't even know what that means. Right. So like clearly I don't know if my mannerisms or the speech at some point, I'm sure everyone listening is like, it was the speech, but like how did that give it away at some point? And you didn't even know. I didn't even know. I didn't know what gay was. I'm telling you I didn't know what gay was when I was a fourth grader. Oh, Oh yeah. I mean I didn't, I guess we'd be like, Oh, you're a gay for, and I'm like, what's a gay for? Oh, I remember people telling you that. A boner on the boss you had. Bobby has a boner. I'm like, that's just my deck. I was in fifth grade. I remember that. I was like, no, I don't. And then I remember, what do you remember? I don't know why I'm going off a tangent now. John Boehner. Titles row. But yeah, so I just, I always remember, I don't know what am I speech was so it was like in fifth grade, didn't care in sixth grade and care. It's when seventh grade came and then people were like, he's different. And then I met other gay kids. That's what it was. And that's what, that's the whole cycle. Oh, I forgot to tell you what, I'll update it in a second. Oh, I wrote that kid that I didn't go to the Lake with and he didn't more spot cause I felt like, not guilty, but I was like, I want to write him and say like, Hey, I as adults, like I didn't go to the Lake with you because I was scared. I was, it was my own inner homophobia. Like a multimillionaire in San Francisco right now. Like, sorry, don't have time. I mean, he literally literally read the thing it said, seen, seen, Oh, no response. I'm like, well, I guess that's what I get. He's like, I don't remember. But you could have said like, Hey, it's the Lake house was my backyard under the trampoline. I don't feel like it. Cows. He's like, it's fine. I had some other straight come over. Right. Even though I wasn't straight. But yeah. So anyway, I just want to update. I don't know why that just came up. I just thought about it. But back to speech that just, yeah. I just remember then when it came to reading out loud and doing presentations, that's when it, that's where my phobia of that happened because I was scared to speak out loud because I didn't want to be caught. Yep. Found which is violence thing. Yet I kind of wish I went to therapy as a kid more. Yeah. We should have and I feel early. Yeah, clearly we were like, they were only on episode nine. Like it's too late now. Yeah, no, no, sorry. Wait, I don't mean that. No, it's not too late night.[inaudible] prefer a childhood. It is. I mean, we already got our demons, our demons. We could have gone to therapy then I have PTSD. I need to get a medical card. Yeah, you do. You could. I could. Well, I got to get my doctor to like to diagnose you. He's not going to die ASU. He's gonna be like, why don't you look for that study? I know. I always put my doctors, by the way, they look not by the way that they're accredited. They're accredited so that he's like, I'm sports medicine. I'm like, it's fine. Take care of me. I used to do sports and he's like, let's do a test. He wants the one that he's, I need to get them to set me up on a sleep study though. You know, you're the one who chose on nothing. So, yeah. But, um, but yeah, I don't know the speech thing really. I'm still not over it, to be honest with you. In a bind, meet somebody new. I'm always like really aggressive. You know? I want to know like this study that we looked at to talk about speech was asking, could you tell a lesbian buyer voice? And the research was saying probably no, and I'm kind of like, I don't know. I feel like lesbians Butch it up. Yeah, but it, but I still, Oh, how we actually need to have a lesbian. Some lesbians on here. Yeah. Represent lesbian panel. Oh, that'd be cool. I would, Oh, we can ask them all the questions we want. Oh, what's it like? Tammy had the worst time. The latest video. Damn. Yeah. It could be like what kinds of, why home Depot or Lowe's or kayak or canoe hall or a you haul you are still, you store you hall or the back of your van van for sure. Fan for like we're moving all of our, I'm sorry this isn't, I'm like, wow, wow, wow. I don't want to come. We have a really good lesbian listener. I know in friends and friends, but you know what? This is the thing I want to say. And as an adult, I think as we're speaking in our language now, we're more comfortable with it. This is what it's all about. Like I don't, it's a joke. Everything's joking nowadays. Yeah. I mean like that was a joke. Like if lesbians get mad at that, they know that they love lows and fucking home Depot most, I mean, I'm putting him in a box and you all just like, I probably have a list. I mean probably seriously. I don't probably, I do, I don't, I want everybody to send a message in who sounds more gay. I feel like your voices, do we need to wait for those messages? No more deeper, deeper honey honey honey who the night comes on and they're like[inaudible] and is Bobby a member of the queer community? He's been a member. He's been abused, silent, silent partner for a while. But now I was there a silent partner and I was trying to make little funny. I don't know. That's probably where Pash. Um, I feel like this is anyways, but back to like, we love lesbians, we love lesbians, we love all of our nominees. None of them. No, not at all. But that we should do a lesbian panel. But I do want your feedback, everybody. I would love some feedback. We would love some feedback. We need feedback. We do. We really need to know what you guys want to hear and talk about. Like what do you, what do you have a question about that we can try to answer? Because we're clearly just, I mean, as you heard for this episode, like we just, we're just going, yeah, we just wanted to kind of, because our beginning episodes were sort of heavy, we'll have you, but like, think about our very first episode. It was just us talking and so I was kinda like, let's do another episode like that. Kind of reel it in, but I definitely, we're going to get, uh, we're gonna have a trans episode for sure. Finally. W yeah. Um, finally. I know that really, it's like, we've been thinking about that for a long time. I have one of the assault, a softball, one of the kickball bros. no way. Yeah. And a list. And a Lister wants to come in wa no, no, no, they're not gonna want to talk to me. They will. What? We'll see. I'm in shock. Okay, sure. No, he's really nice. There's a gay word, sugar. Oh my God, I'm so shuck. F so my, I'll be nervous. I'm gonna be like, yeah, we have to, we have to get from the D list. I'm like Kathy Griffin, like you ain't idealist. I'm a dealer. I think I'm a B. I just, um, I just took a DNA test that I don't know the rest of it. I know I'm that bitch or whatever. 100% that bitch. Sorry. Um, but yeah, so we have a Lister that, so I think when can talk a Lister coming on, which I already told him like I was like, okay, that's enough. Wow. Jim's getting, he needs this right away. And Bupa is slapping on my thighs. No, I wanted to ask him about, I already talked to him about social media, so we're going to have like a little social media like perception episode. I'll, I like it. You know when you're like scrolling, you're like the best site they look at. They were in[inaudible] house. Oh my God. Look at all of the friends that they have and there's really low layman's, deep down that, I mean maybe somebody, this is, I think he wants to talk about some like just wow. Honestly, he really, when he be honest, even good feedback. So I really appreciate that. I can't wait. We're doing it. We're fucking, do you want to become an a Lister? You are not. I'm, you're going to get any list around here. West serious, freaky. So that is that episode. And then I have another friend of mine that wants to come on and he does, he's very political, but he also is in a poly relationship. Yeah. I don't remember the word polyamorous. Yeah. Like yeah, we've got to talk to them about that. You can just say poly. Yeah. Like Paul, he's poly and he's very multiples rollovers and politics first and being policies. He's a very interesting person and so I want to have him on, he's really funny. Yeah, we aren't. It'll be great. It'll be fun. And then, um, what else? Oh yeah. And then we're going to be our next trip to LA, our first trip, but the next trip after Montreal be LA. I can't wait. I've never been, we're going to set up some interviews there. I have a therapist that we're going to talk to and we're talking to grant Vanderbelt even if it's not on the podcast. So it's on the podcast. Oh no. Oh, you're coming to our, we're going to record something. I have to, yeah. It's so funny. Kind of my idol. Yeah. He doesn't give a fuck. Like he's my idol. Yeah. So that's what you have in store. But we need more ideas and we want to hear what you want to hear because, and it also can be like straight girl stuff. Like I don't really care. Yeah. I know what our demographic is. It's gazing straight girls. Like I don't really feel there's that many straight guys listening, which is like nine. We're not talking about football. So I mean, I can though, I'm well versed. I liked that word today. Well versed. How well versed in hockey starting this week. Yes. Yeah. You do love hockey? I'm obsessed. Pretty gross. That's pretty straight. Actually. There's a gay hockey league here, but anyway, what I want to go? Yeah, we can. They're all hot. I want to get checked. That's why I get so nervous at like the sporting events with the gays. I'm like, hi. They're like, Oh, this guy, you're so fit. I'm like, Oh, do you like bears? Do you ski? They're like, what's a bear? Yeah. I'm like this. Just take a look at. You're looking at these bitch tits and this belly ain't going nowhere. They are. They're going to go a little bit down from Montreal. Yeah, they are. I've been going down, but I went up a little bit. Literally I think like$30 at taco bell, you know? That's my thing. I am Monday through Friday. I'm usually decent. Yup. Friday night comes along, I'm like, Oh, I'll just have like whatever, and then Saturday comes. I'm like, well fuck it, and then Sunday I'm like, no, me get back on track, but oops, we didn't string one more. Day two, we're back on track. That's what I did. Well, it's been working for me though. It's been working for me. But then you get to a certain point where your body's like you're tired of it. Yeah. Like your body's like, I know you're fucking games and that's what we'll do in Montreal. Yeah. I can't wait. So we'll play games. So anyway, um, yeah, I guess that's it as your ideas ideas. If you know someone in Montreal, let hook us up. Thank you for listening again to this wonderful episode. Beautiful. And also look out for our coming out stories next week. I can't wait. I can't either. It's really gonna be fun. Okay. And that concludes another episode of she's not doing so well. I'm Bobby and I'm Jim. Thank you. Thanks. Bye. Bye. Bye now. I should've whispered that whole thing. Like where's this going? Another episode she's not doing so well. I'm Bobby and I'm Chen. Thank you. Thanks. Bye bye.

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